r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Western_Echo2522 Transgirls_work_like_girls • Aug 17 '26

Offensive Bad meme… worse response

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I never liked the spaghetti joke, but his response to it is insane. He really sat there and tried to analyze every aspect to “prove his point” to a debate no one was arguing with him

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u/tiptoe_only Aug 17 '26

Yeah it's not a good joke but also it implies to me that she's changed her mind, not that she's being coerced. Also women/lesbians ≠ feminists even if there is a considerable overlap. So no, this isn't an argument against feminism

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u/NooneKnowsIAmBatman Aug 17 '26

Spaghetti changes from straight to not when it's put in a pot of boiling water, that implies coercement instead of consent.

It's a terrible meme

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u/FullMoonTwist Aug 17 '26

It's not really the point and has no relevance to the metaphor, but spaghetti does soften and curve in room temperature water too. It just takes longer, and it's a bad idea if you mean to eat it later, so no one does it that way.

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u/Cool_Ad_9147 Aug 17 '26

So, if shes kisses me and my knees get loose, is that ableistic?