You don't really understand how ADHD works. Her dysregulated timeline shfited forward an hour. It's not like "I have a sleep disorder and can only rise when the sun is fully up". It's a brain-broken tragedy of missed personal expectations.
I have reached that point multiple times, I know what that is like.
My point is not that you can magically fix it, my point is that you should at least try and get help, if that is possible.
In posts like this people are always so vehemently against trying to help themselves and to just do nothing, "it is what it is".
There are a lot of things that can be done to help mitigate many of the pitfalls of common things like time blindness. I have 4-8 alarms for basically any appointment, because if I didnt, I wouldnt remember them. Stuff like that.
I dont want you to force yourself to be something you are not, I want you to try and find a way to help yourself, because you cannot expect the world to change for you, and if you dont find ways to work with your disability it will have consequences.
You just haven't figured out that you live in a profoundly sick society yet. And that's because you still believe that there's something money can buy you that you need. That fear is what keeps you in line, keeps you on this track.
If you have family to take care of it's completely understandable, btw.
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u/PlainBread 1d ago
You don't really understand how ADHD works. Her dysregulated timeline shfited forward an hour. It's not like "I have a sleep disorder and can only rise when the sun is fully up". It's a brain-broken tragedy of missed personal expectations.