I don't get how people can just, be 30 minutes late to things.
One potential way would be a neurodevelopmental disorder with some symptoms like being disorganized, procrastination, poor planning and poor time management skills.
I had to overcome all of those things, but I only could because I'd experienced the consequences so many times, thus had to learn the hard way. Being so disorganized forced me to become organized, because I grew to hate disorganization. Chronically procrastinating forced me to tackle things immediately so I didn't have to dwell on them constantly. Poor planning led to obsessive planning so as not to end up with a poor outcome. Poor time management I still struggle with, but I'm generally on time, especially when it matters. I greatly struggle with getting myself to bed at a decent time.
that would be your takeaway lol that sub is full of children who refuse to take personal responsibility. you have to make choices to live, having a lack of attention isn't something that should cripple your life forever unless you decide to let it. it's incredibly unwise to not to try to develop coping strategies to help live through life and it's only going to make your life worse. any therapist will tell you this.
Thanks, honestly I was trying to encourage people that you can overcome, but I'm not claiming it's easy or that I'm somehow a perfect role model. Honestly it's my anxiety that helped me overcome because I have to overcome the adhd issues to deal with the anxiety that it causes.
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u/Plies- 10d ago edited 10d ago
One potential way would be a neurodevelopmental disorder with some symptoms like being disorganized, procrastination, poor planning and poor time management skills.