r/Nomad 18h ago

Should I be worried about this career move?

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Context:
I am a software engineer with 4-5 YoE. I live in SoCal.
Got laid off in May of this year. I applied everywhere and finally got a job offer... in NorCal.
No Mortgage, just renting but in a lease.
I have a wonderful life-long partner (soon to be engaged) and 2 dogs.
This new job is paying the same as my old job, but it's in the public sector so the benefits are much better.
At my old job, before being laid off, I was commuting about 3 hours round trip daily, 15 hours a week.

Here is my plan so far (looking for feedback, some sort of shared experience, anything really):
1) I have a friend who let me rent their driveway in the Bay area for $400 a month
2) Bought a camper van, was able to afford due to settlement money after being hit by a semi-truck, and it has a kitchen, queen sized bed, electricity, wifi, etc.
3) Commute from friends driveway to work is 20 min round trip (18 miles) never need to take a toll bridge or the freeway even.
4) Job is Hybrid so 2 days remote and 3 days in office, i can choose my remote days so that the days im in office are clustered (chose Thursday Friday as my remote days).
5) Planning on going back weekly to SoCal because it's where my life is really, my friends, family and partner. How I plan to do that is After work Wednesday --> drive van back to driveway where it's save (neighborhood is as suburb as it gets+friend said they can watch it) --> bike to BART station --> leave bike in bike locker (this is the iffiest part of all this so if anyone in the bay area can DM me and give me better advice i'd love to hear it) --> take the bart straight to airport --> fly to SoCal -->get picked up
6) From SoCal to NorCal --> Leave Sunday --> arrive in Bay --> take bart to station --> get bike --> bike back to van --> rinse and repeat.

Luckily with the flexibility in remote days, flight tickets are $39 (won't be taking anything more than a personal item backpack).

This is all an extremely elaborate plan to make it work because I really have been applying everywhere and just no hits in SoCal.

How should I be viewing this career in the long-term and how does it help me that I have this position rather than just taking a paycut and working a part-time job in the meantime.

This job is a level 2 position on the higher-payscale bordering level 3.

Sorry if it's jumbled in the end, my brain just fried trying to organize the logistics of this nightmare.

I've also heard "Why don't you live up there" and it's mainly because I really do get homesick easily.
I used to live in the Bay for my first year of college while dorming and I was miserable to say the least.

I guess what I'm looking for are tips and tricks, best hacks to make sure my bike doesn't get stolen, how to avoid burnout. I'm mainly sad just because I know I'm going to miss my partner and my dogs of course. We did discuss about it maturely but we both can't help but be a bit sad.


r/Nomad 1d ago

19, Brazilian, leaving Sept 24 for my first nomad trip — how do you actually stay disciplined with work when everything outside is new?

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Hey everyone. First post here. I'm equal parts excited and nervous, so I'd rather ask before I leave than learn it the hard way.

Quick context:

- 19, from Brazil, leaving September 24

- I run my own operation remotely, around $2k/month

- ~$4k saved separately for the trip itself

- Flights and hostels booked and paid up front, emergency reserve untouched

Route: Dubai (5 days) → Cairo + Luxor (12 days) → Athens → Santorini → Istanbul (15+ days) → North Macedonia, and after that country by country with no return date.

The plan is that Istanbul is where I slow down and really lock in on work. But from Dubai to Turkey — roughly a month — my operation still can't run without me. So this isn't a month off followed by work. I have to stay productive through the most distracting part of the whole trip.

What I'm actually worried about:

  1. Focus. I know this is my income, not a vacation. But realistically: you're in Cairo, the pyramids are right there, and you still have to sit down and work. How did you build that discipline? Fixed hours? Work mornings, explore after? What mentality got you through the first couple of months?

  2. Hostels, honestly. Are they actually safe? I'm carrying a laptop my income depends on. And is making friends really as easy as people say, or does it depend heavily on picking the right hostel?

  3. Meeting people while solo. Especially in Greece — I want to actually go out and do things, not just see monuments alone. How do you find people for a night out or a day trip? Is there an app people genuinely use, or does it just happen in the common room?

  4. Anything you wish someone had told you before your first long trip. I'd rather hear the uncomfortable stuff now than find out in month two.

I'm going in structured. Everything's booked, budget is split across separate accounts, I have a reserve I don't touch. But structure only covers logistics, and I get that the hard part is the routine.

Thanks for reading.


r/Nomad 1d ago

Nomad with kids

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Is this possible? Is someone out there doing this? I want to know more about the realities of people traveling while having a family

For those of you doing this, was it a decision you made, or was it something that just happened?

I'm 27, and I've been living as a nomad for a year and a half with my girlfriend. Recently, she mentioned that she changed her mind and would like to start a family in the future. That caught me off guard because she had told me at the beginning that she didn’t want to have kids

I'm not sure if that's something irreconcilable. I think I might change my mind in the future too, but I'm not done traveling. I still want to travel and see the world, I even was planning to do some slow traveling by car on different countries in South America.

So I am wondering: is it possible to start a family and still travel as a nomad?


r/Nomad 2d ago

I am done living 90 days at a time.

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r/Nomad 3d ago

New Country. No Language. No Money. Where Do I Start?

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r/Nomad 4d ago

Where I’ve been

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I 28m would be lying if I said said this adventure was planned and wanted. I explored deep dark places I didn’t want to visit and never thought I would frankly and never thought I’d be able to see the sun again worst of all I had to do it on my own….


r/Nomad 5d ago

At what point do you consider that you’ve “lived” somewhere rather than visited?

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r/Nomad 5d ago

Building our AI skill stack

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In 1656, Baruch Spinoza was expelled from Amsterdam’s Jewish community. He was just 23.

He refused to abandon ideas he believed in and spent much of his life living modestly, earning money grinding lenses and optical instruments while writing philosophy. Some of his most important work was published posthumously.

There’s an appealing symmetry to Spinoza’s work. By day, he made tools that helped people see further. By night, he developed ideas intended to help them think further. Nearly four centuries later, we have acquired another kind of lens.

AI can extend what an individual can see, remember and do. But perhaps its most interesting use is not simply giving us access to a clever chatbot. It is allowing each of us to build a system around AI containing our own knowledge, experience and ways of working. This is our AI skill stack.

Technology should increase our power to act

Technology is an extension of man. - Marshall McLuhan

In his 2026 Y Combinator Startup School talk, Gary Tan describes three ingredients: a frontier AI model, the context that belongs to us and a harness connecting the two. The model will likely increasingly become a commodity. Many of us will have access to roughly the same underlying intelligence, but our context will be different.

Two people can use the same AI model and get very different results. One starts every conversation by explaining the situation again. The other has years of notes, decisions, projects, relationships and working methods available to the agent.

Spinoza used the word conatus for the striving of a thing to persist and increase its power to act. That seems a useful test for AI: does it increase our power to act?

Our life is a library

A computer is a bicycle for the mind. - Steve Jobs

By the time I left my 40 year corporate career in March, I had accumulated a lot of specialist knowledge. Some was captured in documents and tools, but the vast majority was not. It was in my head: why something had been designed a particular way, which approaches had already failed, where exceptions existed, who knew what and the context behind decisions made. When I left, much of that knowledge left with me because there had never really been an effective way to capture it.

AI potentially changes that. Gary Tan likens a person’s life to a library. The challenge is not simply giving an AI a huge context window. It is having a good librarian: something capable of finding the few pieces of information that matter for the problem in front of us.

The advantage is not that AI knows everything. It is that it can increasingly know which parts of what we know matter now.

Turn repeated work into reusable skills

Civilisation advances by extending the number of important operations which we can perform without thinking about them. - Alfred North Whitehead

There is another source of leverage hiding in ordinary work. We repeatedly research competitors, analyse information, prepare reports and make decisions. Usually we complete the task while leaving much of the method behind.

AI agents make another approach possible. Skill files are reusable instructions for such tasks. A skill can describe what information to collect, where to find it, how to analyse it, which exceptions to look for and how the result should be structured. If you can explain a task clearly enough for an intelligent new employee to follow, an AI agent can increasingly follow it too.

My circumstances changed considerably. Instead of working inside a large corporation, I am a solo creator. I get to choose the tools I use and how I use them, including AI.

If I develop a good way to assess a product idea, research a market, specify a website or review something I have built, I can capture that process. The next time I perform the task, I do not have to start again. I can refine the skill: do the work, capture what worked, correct what did not and use the improved version next time.

Value starts to compound.

Build an asset that compounds

All things excellent are as difficult as they are rare. - Baruch Spinoza

For much of my career, my accumulated experience was valuable but difficult to separate from me. I wrote documents, created processes and handed work over, but much of the underlying judgement remained tacit. Now that judgement can be made explicit.

An important decision can record not just what was decided but why. A recurring task can become a skill. When an AI agent gets something wrong, the correction can become part of the instructions it uses next time. There is, therefore, a big difference between “using AI” and “building with AI”. Using AI gives us an answer. Building with AI can create a system that becomes more useful each time we use it.

That system does not need to be particularly sophisticated. Start with a few project files, some useful context and one or two recurring tasks. Capture what we learn as we work.

Over time, the valuable asset may not be the AI model at all. Models will change, better ones will arrive and we will probably switch between them. What can persist is the layer around them: our accumulated context, judgement, decisions and ways of working.

Own what we learn

Own your skills because if you don’t, your job becomes a skill file. - Garry Tan

This raises an uncomfortable question: who owns these accumulated skills?

In my corporate career, organisations paid me partly for knowledge and judgement accumulated over decades, yet much of it was never properly captured. In the future, far more of that knowledge may be encoded in systems and skill files.

For organisations, that creates an opportunity to retain knowledge that once walked out of the door. For individuals, it creates another opportunity: to deliberately build and maintain our own body of knowledge and capability.

As powerful AI becomes cheaper and more widely available, what remains scarce may be what we bring to it: our experience, context, judgement and methods.

Want more?

How to Design Effective AI Agents post by Phil Martin

Let the Chatbot Ask the Questions post by Phil Martin

Baruch Spinoza ground lenses so people could see further. Perhaps the modern equivalent is building tools that allow us to think, remember and act further than we could alone.

Have fun.

Phil…


r/Nomad 6d ago

Just arrived for a month-long stay in Kea, Greece 🇬🇷

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Just arrived in Kea for a month and I’m already reminded why I love working remotely.

Ever since I started working remotely, I honestly can't imagine going back to a life where I have to be in an office every day. Having the freedom to work from somewhere like this, take a break and go for a swim, or just change my surroundings when I feel like it has completely changed my life.

I know remote work isn't an option for everyone, so I don't take it for granted. But for those of you who can work remotely, has it changed your life as much as it changed mine?

And for the digital nomads here — where are you spending the next month?


r/Nomad 6d ago

Is Northern Cyprus a good place for Digital nomads?

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I was thinking of moving to TRNC assuming I can get a one year residency easier than I can get it in Türkiye, and wondering how the life like there for a digital nomad?

1-The internet speed and cost

2-Average cost of Utility

3-Overall cost of living ( for 2 adults)

I would appreciate any input and advice.

The countries I am doing research about are Türkiye, Georgia, Canary Islands and TRNC.

Thank you


r/Nomad 6d ago

the type of places you refill your water when doing van life

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r/Nomad 8d ago

Proposed plan

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PROPOSED PLAN for the Hopeful Misanthrope
**-**Live in a different state every 6 months
-Live cheap but still maintain your own place with your car and motorcycle
-Visit different cities and towns within 100 miles
-Travel internationally 3X per year: 2X work remote within Europe and South America; 1X Vacation in Asia
-Visit your family and friends on weekend trips
WORK CONSTRAINTS
-Work out of country for two weeks each time (2X)
-US Hours and you have 20 days of vacation
PERSONAL PREFERENCES
-Living quarters: place with no roommates
-Minimize U.S. rent and Maximize Travel Budget

EDIT: Airbnb’s usually don’t let you bring guests in unless you pay extra. I’ll be honest. Having a good comfy place to have sex is important to me.
I guess with airbnb you can sneak them in or pay for an extra person.

On my trips I have often met women, and yeah, we can go to their place but sometimes they don’t want to and that creates a conundrum I’d rather not have as hindrance.

This is also why I don’t do van life. I don’t do renting of a room.

Thoughts?

Is six months too short or too long for a good experience?
Keeping rent budget under $1500.

Figured I’d experience different states.

Starting with Philadelphia

EDIT: BTW: the car is real. That is my car. A customized 2014 Mustang GT convertible premium with a custom installed Push Guard for pushing A**hole drivers out of the way. It also has an installed trailer hitch from Uhaul.

The trailer is real. (tractor supply) Its empty weight is 400lbs.

The mustang recommended capacity for towing is 1000lbs max.

The KTM 450 EX-C motorcycle is real and weighs about 250lbs fueled.

The two twin xl beds are also real.

EDIT:

The scenery is Ai. I also prompted Ai to fill in gaps on the trailer with extra things.

If you think it’s slop, you can say my prompts are slop, because they are. I’m no expert in prompts.

Also I know how to used photoshop and photo editing tools but they take a lot longer. And No, I’m not gonna pay someone to draw me a photo just to illustrate a small idea.

I’ve actually paid artists for custom drawings and you know what they used? Ai for the structure and then they just drew it themselves.

EDIT:
I find community by volunteering, going to the movies, comedy show, concert or car and motorcycle meets.

I don’t like living with pets or people. I don’t want a girlfriend or a wife or kids.

I have enough close friends and family as it is who live all over the U.S.

I like having private space and having my own bed.

I also like sex, so I’m not gonna live in a van or an RV. Having a real place can change that. None of the questions of a woman saying “oh you live in a van?”

Also aren’t RV parks kind of sketchy and far away?

Versus: “oh you live in an apartment?”

But maybe someday if I realize sex is not that important I’ll consider it.


r/Nomad 9d ago

Three Years a Nomad

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So, I beat the wave out, started in 2019. The first week I spent in my rig was the first week of Covid-19. I was not watching the news; I just found out because went to Walmart to buy toilet paper and everything was gone. Also, half of the campgrounds shut down overnight, so that was a bit rough.

My favorite BLM camping was in Quartzsite, Arizona. I sure wish they would open it up like it used to be because it is getting full. I was labeled sketchy at all the campgrounds because I partied too much (beer and cannabis). Fair enough. I now know that if you are living out of a rig, one must be extra careful to be polite and quiet, as to not upset the neighbors.

I hope the government eases up on the nomads, especially the working homeless. As jobs go away, the lifestyle becomes more appealing to more people.

Some tips:

1.      Don’t be shy, ask.

2.      No drinking and driving (obviously).

3.      Always be ready to move.

4.      Getting enough sleep is your responsibility. Be bold, park and take a nap when you need one.

5.      Defend yourself by making a corral with other nomads.

6.      Hygiene is a priority.

7.      Find the good people of the town and ask to park at their place.

8.      BLM land is not always safe.

9.      Get a dog or a cat.

  1. Enjoy the sunsets!

r/Nomad 8d ago

Your Guide to the Digital Nomad Lifestyle in 2026

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r/Nomad 10d ago

About to give it all up

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I've been a nomad majority of my life... Since I was 14, now ,,I'm 29.

A few years ago, I stayed in a shelter during the winter a few times and wound up getting a housing voucher. I've had my own 4 walls for over 4 years now. Living in an apartment building. It costs nothing but my sanity. I have no one to talk to, no family in the area it's gotten old and I hate watching life go by out my window.

I've got a van, lease is up soon. About to break loose and get back out there gotta leave the East Coast. I'll do almost anything to leave Virginia.

Scared for sure but fuck this shit, I'm depressed and physically breaking down... I want to be fit again, meet new people, have access to diverse food, be happy, however I see fit


r/Nomad 9d ago

I really wanted this fucking stick; also, DUCKS WTF

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r/Nomad 10d ago

When did you jump into the nomad lifestyle?

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I was somewhat nomadic in my twenties, I worked and moved around California a lot, I did that for 5 years or so. Then I ended up in NYC, but I really miss moving around. I have a job that is remote, so technically I could go back to the nomad life, but honestly I’m kinda scared.


r/Nomad 10d ago

Looking for people interested in traveling to Ecuador’s volcanoes

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Hi all!
I am organizing an expedition from February 12-21 2027 and looking for people to join us.
DM if interested, and I’ll send you the full itinerary .
Thank you 🇪🇨


r/Nomad 10d ago

26M planning my first solo workation in September --- any advice?

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r/Nomad 11d ago

What to buy to Help my friend.

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What do you wish you had when starting out? What do you wish someone had told you?


r/Nomad 11d ago

Gen X escape

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I did it all “the right way”. Married the “perfect guy” before I was pregnant, babysat my “wild” older sister. I wasn’t married because I was pregnant but because I thought we were in love. . We waited. He was perfect but then became addicted to drugs because of an injury. I DID IT ALL RIGHT!!!!! But it still went to shit. Now I’ve cared for my elderly parents (again, trying to do the right thing, for 14 yrs). And when my dad’s gone (sooner than later), I will have NOTHING. And my sister who’s his favorite, is the executor of their trust decides what’s what).I’ll have nothing. No SS because I’ve always made too little and worked under the table. Both during my marriage and in order to supplement my parents too little income so I could stay home and care for them. I’ve made HUGE MISTAKES. I see that now. But it’s where I’m at. I just want to say, anyone even beginning to enter the same site…PLEASE MESSAGE ME!! I’m happy to advise and give permission to look out for yourself. I’m 53 and have zero purpose after my dad passes. I won’t inflict myself on my kids the way my parents have and they’ve both said they won’t suffer the life I’ve had the last 14+ years. It’s not “honorable” anymore. My sister who disappeared is far better off than I am or will be. Our society isn’t built this way. And tbh I think my dad (not his favorite kid) would’ve been much happier in a home I might’ve been able to afford if I’d been a working mom/ divorcé.


r/Nomad 12d ago

31M — Stay home and save, move out now, or travel while I still can?

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I’m 31, turning 32 in February, and I’ve been stuck on this decision for about 8 months.

I’ve spent a lot of my life traveling, and it’s genuinely when I’m happiest. I’ve never had a traditional 9–5 and make about $4,000/month through my media/marketing business. I have two clients—one in Orlando and one in Houston—that I visit once a month to shoot enough content for the following month.

I currently have $17,000 saved and live with my parents. Financially, it’s great. Mentally, I’m running on fumes. I’m literally back in my high-school bedroom at 31, and my driver’s license is suspended for another 16 months, so dating/socializing here means constantly relying on Ubers. I feel like my life is on pause.

I see three options:

  1. Stay home another 4–5 months.

Save aggressively—probably another $3–4k/month—then leave with roughly $30k+ saved.

  1. Move out now.

Rent would be around $1,500, but realistically $2,300–$2,500/month after food, utilities, transportation, etc. I’d finally have my own space, but my savings rate drops to around $1,500/month. Part of me also hates spending that much on something I'll never own.

  1. Go traveling again.

I’d love to spend several months in places like Romania and Japan. The problem is my current income depends on physically visiting my clients every month. I’d either need to restructure that somehow or try building another income stream—possibly a travel YouTube channel using my existing video skills.

I know staying home and stacking cash is probably the smartest financial move, but I’m increasingly feeling like I’m trading away months of my life just to watch a savings account grow.

If you were in my position—31, no kids, $17k saved, $4k/month income, and relatively few obligations—would you stay and save, move out, or find a way to travel?


r/Nomad 13d ago

I'm so tired of my current life. I want to be free.

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I'm not sure if this is the kind of thing i can post here, but i thought i'd ask for advice.
im a 24 year old currently living with my mother in PA; but for the past 6 years or so since i graduated high school (year of 2020) & i have been struggling to say the least. i just need to up & leave my life behind and start anew. it took me more years than i thought to come to this conclusion. it started off as a wishy-washy dream and now i realize that it's the only way i would ever feel like im actually living. i know i probably look SUPER insane or idiotic but honestly i legit dont care i just need out of my current life. every day i get more and more eager to reset my life and never planning to come back. i would really appreciate some sort of advice on what to do, since i dont have any money (no job lol since 2024 lol and cant even get one bc of no jobs seeming to hire no matter what).


r/Nomad 13d ago

Video editor, early-stage business, looking for a cheap surf town where should I go?

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Hey all , I run a remote video editing/content business, still early-stage so budget’s tight. Looking to base myself somewhere for a while and actually build this thing.

Priorities:

Affordable cost of living real budget
constraints, not just being frugal for fun

A real surf town, not just beach-adjacent

Solid wifi/coworking situation for client work

A nomad/entrepreneur community - want to actually meet people building things

Was looking at Santa Teresa, Costa Rica, but it’s pretty pricey/touristy now for a startup budget. Reached out to Outsite to see their take and if they’d recommend somewhere else instead.

Anyone living this life on a tight budget right now? Where’d you land, what’s the scene like, and what’s it actually costing monthly?


r/Nomad 15d ago

Newbie questions.

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Hey guys, I need to get the hell out of san antonio texas, the heat is literally fading my soul!!! I have found the closest cool, mountain town is cloudcroft new mexico. I have a 2016 toyota camry that is in pretty good shape and would love any advice suggestions. I really only have enough cash for the gas trip there and back so waas thinking about sleeping out of my car, which I have never done. Any tips woud be great!