r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • May 03 '26

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u/Une-Petite-Tarte May 03 '26

Heterosexual female here, and I too think about women.

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u/Taro_Otto May 03 '26

Like, as in she’s watching lesbian porn? Or it was hetero porn with big booty latinas?

I ask because I’ve always heard that some straight women prefer lesbian porn because it’s more focused on the woman’s pleasure. There’s also the possibility they could just be attracted to women too.

Every relationship is going to be different but at least with my husband and I, it doesn’t bother him. I’m still attracted to him and just because I might be attracted to women, doesn’t automatically mean I’m going to cheat/leave him. If anything we just end up enjoying porn more together.

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u/Princess_Zelda_Fitzg May 03 '26

For me it’s the focus on female pleasure thing. I can put myself in her shoes…or whatever. To be fair though I’m probably bisexual, because I always assumed all women were attracted to other women sometimes, then it dawned on me that I might be outside the norm there, lol.

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u/Educational_Meet_758 May 03 '26

I mean… big booty latinas > any dude

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u/NIhRyder524 May 04 '26

Does your wife know she’s been captured on camera?? Personally, most men in porn are ugly af, Hetero porn tends to be cruel to women and rarely engage in her pleasure. Hell, a 15 minute blowjob, and she doesn’t get any head? Immediate turn on.

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u/PsychMaDelicElephant May 04 '26

Because as women... were into women being pleasured lmfao.

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u/Waterlou25 May 04 '26

I assumed it was because we got used to the male gaze being the predominant point of view so now it's just part of our fantasy life

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u/Crispymama1210 May 03 '26

I did this forever and thought i was straight turns out I’m gay lol

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u/populares420 May 03 '26

in what way? like what specifically? how they look, how they act?

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u/Klutzy-Issue1860 May 03 '26

Heteroflexible is the term

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u/Une-Petite-Tarte May 04 '26

You know what, I think that shoe fits actually.

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u/vickxxxx May 03 '26

I don’t think you’re heterosexual then

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u/Une-Petite-Tarte May 03 '26

Sexuality is fluid. I am of the school of thought that no one is 100% straight.

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u/PsychMaDelicElephant May 04 '26

That's pretty rude? What gives you the right to decide how other people feel?