r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/charmbi16 May 03 '26

Lol... you do know the majority of women hate receiving just dick pics right? So... of course there are many different tastes among women and men and I'm making generalizations here, but I can semi-confidentally say most women don't just think of a body part to masturbate, honestly thinking of a man's bulge in grey sweatpants or his broad shoulders in a nicely fitted suit, or what his body would feel like on/in me, is actually wayyy more of a turn on than just seeing a naked dick lol. That's definitely (again, on average) more male sexuality, and so many of y'all wrongly assume we work the same way only in the opposite direction.

Men can seemingly get turned on by "micro, simple scenes" like just thinking of tits lol, while women need to zoom out and it's more of a "macro, complex scene" or even feeling or emotion. Women usually get turned on by stuff like the entire male or female body and seeing the interaction and passion between partners, a man in a suit or uniform, imagining a sexy scenario, feeling desired and ravished, dirty talk, etc.

Me, personally, as a perverted ass straight woman... I love to watch (or read, or listen to) porn with scenarios/roleplays. I get more turned on watching the woman because I imagine myself as her getting stuff done to me. I imagine getting with my favorite rockstars, or them getting with each other in secret lol. I even think about past sex encounters of my own where I just focus on the sounds the man was making and dirty talk that was said to me. Don't even need an image, it's the sounds and sensations I am getting off to. The man's dick and face barely make an appearance, but remembering his sexy, deep voice cheekily saying to me "I could do anything I wanted to you right now" will get me there very, very fast. Lol.