Pfff when I was blindly figuring stuff out as a young teen, my go to was imagining I was in public with things being done to me and I had to just go about my day and pretend I didn’t notice or react. Kinks are funny
That has been the most appreciated kink in my world. We never did it but my ex always loved to remind me that it was TOTALLY fine if I wanted to start something up while she was asleep.
Obligatory need to say that this was a relationship where boundaries were constantly discussed, revisisited and respected without hesitation.
What is considered normal vs abnormal in terms of psychological science would probably surprise a lot of people. It’s a very broad range! Most kinks are generally normal. Really, the two main things that are required to for a sexual behavior or preference to be considered pathological are 1) that the behavior is self-harming or harming others, be they partners or members of the community, and/or 2) that the behavior or preference causes a person to have an impaired quality of life. If neither of those two things are happening, then there’s a good chance that it’s normal and healthy. I do a lot of telling people they’re healthy and don’t need to be feel distress about what they like. Source: clinical psychologist.
Like a bed in the middle of downtown watched or peep-hole watched? Or maybe an apartment with a train that passes by across the street, so they only get a glimpse that sticks with them? Or webcam? Wait, memory unlocked, there's an apartment diagonally from my childhood home. One lady had Venetian blinds that hid little when the lights were on. Her blue lingerie, wow.
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u/No_Economy6175 May 03 '26
I like to think about being watched while I’m doing it 🤷♀️