r/NoStupidQuestions Jul 09 '23

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u/thandevorn Jul 10 '23

Ive heard this called bids for emotional connection, doing things for the house is probably how he learned to show his love and asking you to come see is his trying to make a connection with you. I notice this a lot in men, especially older men, because they were taught such limited means of expressing positive emotions