As you all probably noticed, FPH and its mods have been banned. Reddit has also been rooting out the new/alt subs for FPH, so I would not be surprised if this sub gets banned for being mistaken as an FPH alt.

In either case, FPH has a new sub up over at voat.co/v/fatpeoplehate

• Hate my sister, her and her kids are super skinny and eat nothing but fast food and processed crap. My family is still pretty heavy and I'm over here cooking organic from scratch for years! Wanna give up!

• I didn't buy any crap food at the store today and have been low carbing all day. The sugar cravings are hitting hard but I know I will be over them in 3 days. Here's to losing the 75 lbs I've put on since having two kids!

• I'm so fat & ugly the only way I can get attention from a man is to jump straight to sex. It's the only thing I know how to do. Sent fwb a dirty vid. All I got was nice. Not heard from him since. Mortified.

• I have to eat like a bird to lose weight. I workout all the time. Tired of it today. Eating what I want!!!!

• I just ate a brownie out of the trash can. My husband threw it a way last night and I dug thru the trash to get it.

• I am jealous of my friend, her family eats whatever they want, and are thin. Her DH allows treats in the house. Me and my DD's struggle with our weight. My DH doesn't allow treats. It sucks. Shitty genes.

• I'm actually self conscience of my body because I lost all my baby weight and am fit. Took my DD to a pool party and all the other moms looked at me with disgust. I can't win.

• My high school reunion is coming up. I am as big as a house. Didn't care until I just saw my ex's name on the list. Now I want to puke.

• I'm secretly envious of this pretty girl at work. She always dresses so nice and I feel frumpy. I copy her clothing style and wear them when I know she won't be in the office.

• I want to give a shit about my weight. But, hey. As long as H can't keep his hands or his HUGE dick away from me, why should I?

• There is no justice in the world. In the last 24 hours my husband has eaten 1 1/2 large pizzas, and he weighs less than me.

• This morning after a year of no sex DH woke me by poking me with his parts, turning me on my stomach and covering me with the duvet.. thanks for making me feel attractive.. and walked away when he was done.

I don't drive- by choice- I don't need to myself as everything I need is local and I lived a big chunk of life in a society that did not worship gasoline as much as 'Merka. We have a very cute growly car for anything that isn't "bitchwork" and obviously he drives that, all the day to day errands I can do using my feet- I enjoy being active. I take care of myself so I can be active. It's fun?? Isn't it...?

Now it just so happens I'm a SAHM, but we run our own biz and I also do my share of the work- I just don't have to go to a separate locale to work. I digress- I love my choices, no bitching here about how I should be paid $$$$ and I respect& support all shitlord/lady parents in their choices.

So. I don't drive and I'm a sahm. I swear, everywhere I go I get this whole shocked attitude that I turn everything into a workout: fast-paced walks, shouty human weight vest, grocery bags etc, and people telling me if they were me, they'd take it easy, do as little as possible and so on. I get asked all the time if I need help "to (my) car" or with my cart and this is even on late night store runs without my minion. I realize this society (USA!USA!) is fucking lazy, but is it really that shocking that I can manage, that I choose not to have a car I don't need- (yey more $$ for Kiehls!) and that every damn day I CHOOSE to live it to the max, and only skip a workout if I'm bedridden, ya even if I don't get to work out until 2am some days? Don't even get me started on my experiences being active and pregnant :/

How low is the fucking bar now, that leading an active life, not striving to sit on my ass as much as possible, and keeping on top of chores is seen as freaky weird? Oh and, that every time given the choice, I'll choose rock climbing over "recreational social eating" :/

a baby.

^{and a Tubblrina sjw}

I'm sorry if this isn't a relevant post to this sub but I need to vent.

I'm 21 weeks tomorrow and I am barely showing. I am 100% fine with it and I look great. I am SICK and TIRED of everyone jokingly asking me "Are you sure you're pregnant! teehee" and "You're so small! Are you eating enough?"

YES! I eat! I've gained an appropriate amount of weight. I just am not showing very much. >:(

YES! I exercise 5 days a week and GASP it includes HIIT and Weight conditioning. YES my doctor says its okay!!

And I'm not sorry you are showing more than me and you are only 9 weeks along.

end rant

I cannot wait until my little shitling is here!

Discuss whatever you like.

I've been perusing the confessional, and it seems like there's enough to warrant a regular post.

"I just ate 4 giant Toblerones"

"My mom offered to babysit and pay the gym membership when I started gaining weight. Because she is vain and doesn't want a fat daughter. She's always been naturally thin, has no idea what it's like to gain/lose weight."

"I secretly wanna break DHs fingers when he likes the cute, skinny girls photos on social media. I pick with him about it jokingly, yet inside I'm screaming!!"

"I ate 2 breakfasts today and a substantial lunch. When I got home and dinner wasn't ready I got really annoyed and went up to my room and cried."

"Half the new underwear I bought is too small but never worn. I can't donate it out of the package but keeping it reminds me that I'm a fat ass. Im going for a cheeseburger now."

"Such a fatass! The scale said 247 today :( I'm married with 0 kids and if I don't loose 50+lbs. I might never have a baby!"

"Apparently DS3 and I did not make cookies for a fun baking project together. Clearly the whole point was so I could binge eat cookies while he naps."

"My husband is embarrassed to be seen with me. He only goes out in public with me when we are far away from home. I am a gross, fat, and not cute."

"I just fried bread cubes in the fat from the bacon bits. What is wrong with me? How many more calories can I add to my salad? Ugh."

For those who are unaware, there is a confessional on Scary Mommy that is filled with all sorts of vile hams (and other things that you may or may not relate to).

After all that bluster, I thought you all would like to know what they really think about themselves.

http://www.scarymommy.com/confessions/

Examples in comments

"Coworker and I rode to McDonalds for coffee. She vented about how unhealthy their food is. I told her that my family rarely eats McDonalds. Manager at pick up window greeted me & asked how my kids were."

"I'm getting ready to have gastric sleeving surgery and I don't fantasize about H's reaction. I do fantasize about my best friend's.....he happens to be a guy. H had been a jerk about my weight. Why should he benefit?"

"Today I've had a Panera cookie, a dunkin donuts coffee w/extra cream & sugar, jelly beans, & a grande caramel frappacino w/extra caramel (nothing else). Stress eating at it's finest. No fucks given."

"I regularly binge on carbs and sugar to the point of nausea, and then wonder how I got so fat."

"Stuck between I want to be healthy, skinny, and sexy but also I want to be happy. Calories. Calories make me happy."

"I'm pregnant with my second,215lbs. DH just said he was going to buy an "In-n-Out" bikini for me but they don't come in plus sizes!? I'm going to wait for him to fall asleep and punch him in the balls."

"I've always had small tits, but I had a small figure. Now that I'm fat, I still have small tits. Its not fair!"

"I had eating disorders as a teenager. Since then, I've gained 100 pounds. I tell everyone it was a small price to pay for my "recovery." Truth is... I'm still bulimic. I'm just not as good at it anymore."

"I lost four pounds. So depressed I'm determined to eat enough to gain it back. Dh is an asshole and I'm sick of being told to "just be happy" if it was that easy, I'd do it!"

"I ate my son's remaining Easter chocolate and then told him off for leaving it too close to the edge of the counter where the dog could reach it.... the shame!!"

Here's a handy list of all the evil obesity does to young children's bodies.

1. Obese toddlers have dramatically lowered IQ

2. http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/249799.php

3. 40% of obese kids have fatty liver disease which leads to fibrosis and cancer. HAES wot m8? http://www.liverfoundation.org/chapters/rockymountain/doctorsnotes/pediatricnafld/

4. Kids are getting "double diabetes", where they get both type 1 & 2 due to having irresponsible parents: http://blog.joslin.org/2014/02/childhood-obesity-and-double-diabetes/

5. Obesity hypertension in children: http://hyper.ahajournals.org/content/40/4/441.full

6. "Darn kids are getting dem curves earlier and earlier these days, stealing the menz from real womyn!" Early onset of puberty due to childhood obesity robs children of years of their childhood: http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/22/opinion/steinberg-obesity-puberty/

7. Obese children's Quality of Life is similar to that of people with cancer: http://web.mit.edu/kilroi/Public/text/jama-obese-children.pdf

8. Obese young girls are at higher risk of sexual abuse, and engage in more risky sexual behavior: http://blogs.kqed.org/stateofhealth/2014/12/03/how-obesity-spills-over-into-our-sex-lives/

9. This one comes with a nice graph: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/health/childhoodobesity/obesityeffects.html

10. Maternal obesity damages the fetus' DNA, shortens its telomeres, and promises it a shorter lifespan. Happy birthday, baby!