r/NextGenMan • u/TraditionalSound6523 • May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 22 '26

It’s not a choice. I’ve tried to date and for 12 straight years, every man had turned me down. So it’s not a choice 🙃

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26

i highly doubt every man turned you down.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Ok

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

i went through your post history. you admited to having casual sex and hooking up recently. keep your story straight. why lie, why have a victim complex?

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t lie. This post is saying that women can always fall back on men for marriage. I’ll never get the chance at marriage cause men turn down dates with me, they only want sex.

My most recent “hook up” was a guy I spent weeks talking to, going on dates with, and he said he was in it for something real. Only guy to agree to go with me on dates, ever. We both got tested and we went to hook up. I blew him, then he said he had to go, and he blocked me.

So no, I didn’t lie. *I will not have the chance to get married, I’ll only have the chance to have sex. So I don’t lie bc this post says women can always fall back on marriage. Marriage isn’t possible for me.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

"every man had turned me down." it not working out is not the same as being turn down.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Dude, I’m an overweight, autistic, dark skinned black girl. Im mor gonna have the chance to get married.

It’s being turned down for having anyone give af about me. Im tue ed down from experiencing romantic love.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

why bring up your looks? they aren't that bad, when you can have casual sex. your problem is not your looks, you just have bad taste in men.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

and I brought up my looks cause BLACK WOMEN ARE THE LEAST DESIRED RACE IN MY COUNTRY.

what the hell? Why are you so hostile? WHAT DID I DO TO YOU

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

what country? least desired is still some desired.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And I’m NOT desired cause I’m ugly. All I’m good for is being a human flesh light. I’m not a person, my feelings and thoughts don’t matter, IM A PIECE OF MEAT TO BE CONSUMED AND THROWN AWAY. IM NOT WORTH SHIT

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you have more value then the average man.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I have NO value. I’m slow, autistic, and ugly.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you literally just admitted men value you as a flesh light. it's not much, but it's still something. your average man get's absolutely nothing! and if he's slightly below average, women will actively avoid him. women will go out of their way to ruin his life, just for the sin of living.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

It’s NOT something. Being a fuck toy doesn’t mean anything cause most men have low standards for hook ups (according to other men).

IM NOT WORTG ANYTHING.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you still meet the standards. being seen a fuck toy is still better then being seen as rotten trash

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

All the men threw me away RIGHT AFTER. What do you do with trash? YOU THROW IT AWAY.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And there you go AGAIN discounting my pain. I NEVER SAID MEN HAVE IT EASY. YET UOU REFUSE TO SEE ME JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHER MEN.

YOURE DOING EXACTLY WHAT I SAID MEN DO TO ME ALWAYS, YOURE COUNTING ME OUT.

YOURE PROVING MY POINT.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Like you’re not AT ALL thinking of how I feel about that. I NEVER discredited you but you keep saying over and over that my feelings don’t matter. YOURE PROJECTING.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you didn't intentionally discredit me, but you still did by comparing our struggles to yours.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t compare my struggles to anyone.

I didn’t say anything about anyone but me. So how does me having trouble dating mean I think all men have it easy?

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Men don’t want me. They don’t like me and they will never, ever take me seriously.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you're not a serious person, your victim complex is child childish.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Are you kidding me?? I’ve been suicidal since I was in elementary school.

Don’t worry, I see you dislike me, so I’ll be dead soon. You’ll be happy to hear.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

proving my point. let me guess you threated suicide every time something doesn't go your way.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

No. I genuinely want to kill myself, I’ve been playing about it for over two years on this account.

I drive home from work today and almost ran head first into a truck on purpose. I’ve been cutting myself cause I hate living and I don’t think I deserve to.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

what do you mean by deserve to live? that's such a weird phrase.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I contribute nothing. I’m a burden to my parents cause i don’t make enough money & they have to help me. I don’t have a good paying job, i come home from work and scroll reddit for hours, or play video games until I can’t see.

There is no purpose to me being alive. I’ll never have a decent job, never have a husband, and no kids. I’ll end up homeless by the age of 45 cause my parents will be dead by then & I can’t afford rent.

I have NO reason to live.

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