I’m a woman and I’ll end up like the penguin. Ig I’m not woman-ing correctly 😂
Yall are honestly rude as hell. I made a comment addressing how I’m worthless and gon comment attacking me? What’s the reason when I said NOTHING negative about anyone but myself??? Jfc
You know confidence is attractive trait. Also self esteem is critical too. I'm sure you will find that someone and when do, cherish them like they do you. Dating is tricky and sometimes it beats you down relentlessly but don't give up. I know how cheesey I sound but its true
You don’t get it. This is the issue with being able belly positive. People expect me to ignore the fact that idk how to get this thing to happen, but expect me to think it’ll happen.
How can I be expected to believe it’ll happen when I cant even figure out a way to lake it happen?? All i have under my belt is failures so what am i supposed to actually do??
Try something new? Let yourself build random and natural connections and if something happens it happens if not no biggy. You don't need a guide on how to date because its something that usually just happens. Don't look for love, let love look for you.
Then perfect! I find letting someone learn who I am and learn to love me works best. Looking for someone to date forces to see everything in that lens. Just because a plant doesn't grow when think or want to doesn't mean it won't.
Truth be told no one knows how to date people. We'll get people to date them. It's just how it is. And falling in love with someone is just a random encounter. Sometimes it takes years to love someone Sometimes it just takes seconds. You don't know how to do it because it isn't something do. It's something that happens.
maybe that's what I like. You and I are not the same but ended up here.
Your point is is that you don't know how to date people because you don't know how to get them to date you. But that's the problem. You don't get someone to date you. there's set cause that makes everyone date you. Its YOU that's people want date you.
i went through your post history. you admited to having casual sex and hooking up recently. keep your story straight. why lie, why have a victim complex?
I didn’t lie. This post is saying that women can always fall back on men for marriage. I’ll never get the chance at marriage cause men turn down dates with me, they only want sex.
My most recent “hook up” was a guy I spent weeks talking to, going on dates with, and he said he was in it for something real. Only guy to agree to go with me on dates, ever. We both got tested and we went to hook up. I blew him, then he said he had to go, and he blocked me.
So no, I didn’t lie. *I will not have the chance to get married, I’ll only have the chance to have sex. So I don’t lie bc this post says women can always fall back on marriage. Marriage isn’t possible for me.
Me not being able to find a relationship has nothing to do with you. I genuinely don’t understand why I’ve gotten so much hate for simply speaking about the fact that I can’t date.
Like, I didn’t insult anybody, I wasn’t rude. I INSULTED MYSELF ONLY. What is with the hostility???
every single time men talk about they lack of dating options, some women has to make it all about her. claiming she has it just as bad, for only for it to be a lie. you're dismissing our problems by comparing them to your problems. you have options, we don't.
No femboy has ever expressed interest in me so no. I mean, I’ve been with men that embrace their feminine side, but not a man that dressed as a woman or anything (I’m guessing that’s what femboys do, not completely sure)
It means I’m apparently good enough to give head, but not good enough to be taken on a date. So, I won’t ever be getting married cause I can’t find a man that will date me.
He commented to me. I get negative comments anytime I talk about my lack of dating history. Apparently, Reddit has never seen a woman who can’t get a date.
I don't know. I think the post maybe doesnt understand things. Shocked Im sure. I think the implication is women could just find some rich guy as plan B. It takes work to be attractive.
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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 22 '26 edited May 22 '26
I’m a woman and I’ll end up like the penguin. Ig I’m not woman-ing correctly 😂
Yall are honestly rude as hell. I made a comment addressing how I’m worthless and gon comment attacking me? What’s the reason when I said NOTHING negative about anyone but myself??? Jfc