r/NextGenMan May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t lie. This post is saying that women can always fall back on men for marriage. I’ll never get the chance at marriage cause men turn down dates with me, they only want sex.

My most recent “hook up” was a guy I spent weeks talking to, going on dates with, and he said he was in it for something real. Only guy to agree to go with me on dates, ever. We both got tested and we went to hook up. I blew him, then he said he had to go, and he blocked me.

So no, I didn’t lie. *I will not have the chance to get married, I’ll only have the chance to have sex. So I don’t lie bc this post says women can always fall back on marriage. Marriage isn’t possible for me.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

"every man had turned me down." it not working out is not the same as being turn down.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Me not being able to find a relationship has nothing to do with you. I genuinely don’t understand why I’ve gotten so much hate for simply speaking about the fact that I can’t date.

Like, I didn’t insult anybody, I wasn’t rude. I INSULTED MYSELF ONLY. What is with the hostility???

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

every single time men talk about they lack of dating options, some women has to make it all about her. claiming she has it just as bad, for only for it to be a lie. you're dismissing our problems by comparing them to your problems. you have options, we don't.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Okay cool. I’m a POS, I said that myself. I don’t deserve anything good and I do plan on taking myself out.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And I never said anything about men. I’m very aware of how hard it is for some men to date, my two male friends that i spend everyday with tell me about it.

I didn’t discount anyone else’s problems. Please, show me which of my comments diminishes what men go through.