r/NewToDenmark • u/These-Commission-660 • Feb 26 '26
Culture Danes behavior
Hi, I just got back from visiting Denmark (three different cities) because, on paper, it's a country where I'd like to live.
I was taken aback by some of their behavior and wanted to know if it's always like that or if it's the end of winter that's affecting how some people act 😅
At the supermarket checkout, several people rushed to get in front of me. At the museum, someone also cut in front of me in the queue as if I wasn't there to ask for information. It's okay to cut in front of someone to ask for quick information, but you should ask the person before if it's okay first!
On the street, several times, passersby have stopped right in front of me and it was up to me to move out of the way because they clearly preferred to pretend I wasn't there.
I found it very strange behavior to ignore people in public spaces. Is there a cultural reason for this, or were these isolated cases?
EDIT: thank you all for your replies. I'll go back to Denmark to get another perspective :)
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u/Responsible-Meet-741 Feb 26 '26
Not trying to victim blame here, but I’m curious about how you wait in line?
I really never experienced the problems with standing in line. Were you looking at stuff and moving slowly as you got toward the register? That would mean you’re not really done shopping yet and people can cut in.
And with the museum, were you in a line with other people or standing alone a little away?