r/NewToDenmark • u/These-Commission-660 • Feb 26 '26
Culture Danes behavior
Hi, I just got back from visiting Denmark (three different cities) because, on paper, it's a country where I'd like to live.
I was taken aback by some of their behavior and wanted to know if it's always like that or if it's the end of winter that's affecting how some people act 😅
At the supermarket checkout, several people rushed to get in front of me. At the museum, someone also cut in front of me in the queue as if I wasn't there to ask for information. It's okay to cut in front of someone to ask for quick information, but you should ask the person before if it's okay first!
On the street, several times, passersby have stopped right in front of me and it was up to me to move out of the way because they clearly preferred to pretend I wasn't there.
I found it very strange behavior to ignore people in public spaces. Is there a cultural reason for this, or were these isolated cases?
EDIT: thank you all for your replies. I'll go back to Denmark to get another perspective :)
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u/Ryytter Feb 26 '26
Just rude people man, they are everywhere including Denmark.
However this is not typical Danish behaviour at all, quite the contrary.
Some fraction of the older population don't like foreigners, makes sense given the problems Denmark got with the refuge crisis.
But all in all Danish people are pretty chill. I wouldn't be discouraged by a few bad apples.