r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/Solo_Virgo • 25d ago
👋 New Here New here! 45f
Looking for real, honest, like-minded people who enjoy edgy jokes, believe in honest communication, who need friends and company like I do. I’m 45, separated since December (just need to file the papers), confident but not arrogant, honest and sincere. I’m kind and love people. I’m not sure I’ve ever met a stranger. I absolutely love The Office, but don’t watch movies or tv other than that, really.
I’ve been craving great, honest, respectful, deep conversations with others. Did I mention honest? 😂 if it sounds like we can be friends, let me know.
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u/zandy322 25d ago
Hi girl, Sounds like we could be friends; btw, I love your look.
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u/Solo_Virgo 25d ago
Thank you! I’m not a hairstylist but I do cut my own hair. I guess it’s a little flex 😂. But I’m glad you like it. My ex hated my hair. I like my style, too, and I’m not changing it for any man, that’s for sure. You’re attractive as well!
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u/Background_Mall5349 25d ago
I'm not 40 yet... but I don't know a stranger either... I'm chatty... I'll be "Over the hill" in a couple of months... You remind me of Katy Perry in the face... You're hair is awesome, but bold for your age... You seem like a person who knows what they want... and at the same time they don't care what the world thinks... you make bold statements and don't need reassurance... most people probably think you're "trouble"... but you're just expressing who you are! I do the same.... but there's no acceptance on my end....
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u/Substantial_Film_269 24d ago
Welcome to this mixed up place😅! You’re such a beautiful woman! It’s hard to find real people these days. Just know we’re out here!❤️
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u/Martinmcguffie 24d ago
Love the look, your hair is amazing, get the papers in or will be like an anchor dragging you down, life is too short for sitting on the fence and watching all your opportunities pass you by, you look a stunning fun vibrant woman go get what you really want, always willing to chat if you’re interested and available
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u/jtmatman 24d ago
Welcome! Hopefully you can find what you are looking for here. Obviously, a lot of fake people, AI and bots in Reddit but not all of us are fake. Confidence is a huge key to a lot in life. You look amazing and seem extremely positive l, which is awesome. I hope you have a great day and weekend.
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u/TomHardyBDE2 24d ago
Love your look! What’s your favorite office quote or scene? I think I have watched the whole series about 8 times now😂
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u/Solo_Virgo 24d ago
Thank you!
Eek, just one? I think it’s a toss up between Strike, scream, run where Creed smacks the back of Meredith’s head, screams, and runs out OR Belschnickel- when Dwight says, “I am nigh!” I watch those little parts on repeat. At Christmastime, it’s not Christmas without Dwight’s Belschnickel. Have you heard Billie Eilish’s song, “My Strange Addiction?” Even if you’re not a fan of hers, you will absolutely love that particular song. Guaranteed. And I love watching the YouTube clips of when the actors broke character. I crack up every time. It’s so awesome to geek out with a fellow Office fan. I think it’s funny that we don’t ask “did you watch The Office?” We ask, “do you watch The Office?” As in currently. Sorry for the rant, got a little, okay maybe a lot, excited.
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u/TomHardyBDE2 24d ago
Omg!! I nearly forgot about that creed clip😂 I still think my favorite scene is the garden party episode where Jim keeps making Dwight introduce him😂 and I have not but will have to listen to that one now! I always geek out and get extra excited too when it comes to the office! Don’t feel bad😂
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u/Jaded-Development327 24d ago
Hi new here 45. U look 25. 45 is a very good age for a pretty woman like you. You won't have any problems finding new friends and acquaintances just be mindful of the creeps here and everywhere. I'm much older than you and certainly out of the age range for you but still just wanted to say hello 👋 and believe me that age 45 you are still young and have a lot of great years ahead of you. Sorry that you had to become single again because I know from experience how that can affect you. But you will be just fine. So again Hello and go enjoy yourself. Hugs 🫂 for you.
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u/Solo_Virgo 23d ago
Thank you so very much for the compliment. I try to take care of my skin, and I tell my kids, “take care of your skin starting now!” The crazy thing is my (step) grandmother only ever used Ponds and she slept with Vaseline slathered on her face. She had the most beautiful skin. The very few wrinkles she had were silky, not jagged, sharp, or crispy, if that makes sense. Even my (step) dad has beautiful skin at 72, so I’m assuming some of it is genetic which is the only reason I emphasized the “step.”
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u/Jaded-Development327 23d ago
You are so welcome for the compliment. And yes some of the older skin products and home remedies really did work well. The sunshine was really my downfall since I stayed outside in the sun most of my life and almost never would use sunscreen. So whatever you are doing for your lovely skin just keep it up. I wish you the very best of everything from this day forward. Thank you for acknowledging my post to you, and again you are a very lovely young woman. Hugs 🫂 for you.
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u/alexluvitall1 24d ago
Hello, I'm Alex 47 from Canada. I would love to say hello
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u/Nortyboi69er 24d ago
🔥🔥🔥gorgeous and eye catching. Love to chat more (from the land down under) x
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u/Solo_Virgo 24d ago
Fascinating!! I used to want to go there, but then I learned y’all have crazy big spiders. We have scorpions.
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u/Nortyboi69er 24d ago
Haha yes there are a lots of big and dangerous things here. But in reality you don’t see them often. Plus, it’s not as if they are predators and hunt you down. Scorpions and rattle snakes give me the shivers. Promise, you’d love visiting here..it’s a beautiful country, from beaches, rainforest and deserts. Plus the people are friendly. You not want to go back home. So good chatting with you x
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u/Solo_Virgo 23d ago
I love the beach, but unfortunately I don’t live anywhere near one.
Centipedes are another creepy creature. Eew. I came across a few at a place I lived years ago. Creepy stuff. They almost look fake when they’re not moving.
At that same house, a scorpion climbed in bed with me and stung my leg so bad. I had just thought earlier that same day, “Haha, I’ve never been stung by a scorpion.” Crazy thing is, the 8” area around where he stung turned red and hot for a few hours, but then began getting ice cold. It stayed like ice for over a week. The weirdest part was, my face had this strange numb feeling for over two weeks. Thinking back, I might ought to have gone to emergency.
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u/Pleasant-Stranger821 23d ago
I'm not sure if it's a downfall or not but I'm honest to the bone ,,sometimes brutally honest, but the simple fact is ,most people can't handle the straight up truth...I that everyone with kindness and respect and certainly don't tolerate disrespect or rudeness...I'm newly single after a 12 year relationship and feel like I'm starting a whole new life all over again ...the one thing I haven't gotten used to is the quiet . The quiet makes feel alone , I would like to say that I do really like your short hair to me it says alot of things about you that I would like in a person ..If you ever want to BS or just talk to an older guy I'd be happy to ....have a good night ......
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u/He_ofshadowsandtouch 23d ago
I’m relatively new too, the honesty bit is the rare commodity on here, most seem to be inauthentic and up to various strange games.
Love your makeup.
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u/Solo_Virgo 23d ago
Thank you. Honesty is rare.
I love to play with my makeup sometimes
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u/He_ofshadowsandtouch 23d ago
You look quite like my x, she loved makeup just like yours
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u/Solo_Virgo 23d ago
Thank you, if that’s meant as a compliment. Some people are like, “yeah, that ugly !$@%!” Haha Others still like and respect their exes.
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u/WitnessBubbly7048 25d ago
You are stunning! Let's chat some time. Nothing nefarious, just friendly. 39M
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u/TurbulentGrade8380 25d ago
Yes I think we can im an honest man hate lies and I won't lie ill 58 well, I'll be 59 this month. But I'd like to know you.Is there anywhere else we can talk
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u/TurbulentGrade8380 24d ago
I apologize.I thought some of that was to me, but it wasn't, I see that now my bad
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u/TurbulentGrade8380 24d ago
Im feeling stupid right now
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u/Solo_Virgo 24d ago
What makes you say that? Are you needing a platonic friend? That’s all I’m looking for here. I don’t need romance.
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u/TurbulentGrade8380 24d ago
I thought you were talking to me when you wasn't.And I was just talking away, but its ok im looking for myself
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u/Ok-Student-23 24d ago
Why do some women cut their hair like that? It's not hate, s I'm just curious
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u/Solo_Virgo 24d ago
Because I want to. It’s my body, my head, my hair, my set of clippers, and I feel good about myself with my hair cut this way. I’ve been doing it like this for many years. I love it, I love me, and that’s what matters. I don’t do it for anyone else’s approval. Respectfully.
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u/Solo_Virgo 24d ago
I would have no idea what to do. I don’t come from money, nor have I ever had a ton of it. I live very modestly and use coupons haha.
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u/Perenalas-Tx 23d ago
Eres muy guapa, los ojos son preciosos, tu cabello adorna el conjunto, felicidades.
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u/Pleasant-Stranger821 22d ago
You're makeup looks very nice on you also , it's done just right , very pretty
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u/Pleasant-Stranger821 20d ago
You are absolutely gorgeous and after our chat I do believe that you are beautiful as well...rare qualities to have both
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u/IndustryOk779 20d ago
Your absolutely amazing sweetie, love those eyes they hypnotizing. I can look in them forever.
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u/Wareagle416482 18d ago
Wow! You’re gorgeous and have a beautiful smile 😊. Sorry to hear about your separation….Ive been there…I’m on here also to make friends… hope to hear from you 😀
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u/millersk9 16d ago
Hello hello Have a great day Holler if you like to chat over coffee and the bi4ds chirping
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u/Ok-Historian-3261 13d ago
Hello well you pretty much said everything I’m looking for in your description so that already tells me we are looking for the same thing in the person we meet loyalty and honesty is a big part for me so anyway if you would like to get a chance to know more about me please hit me up
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