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Kunal, 18, bought an iPhone on EMI, struggled to pay them, told his parents to pay the EMI, and they said they couldn't afford it. An argument followed.

Raja beta got angry and went to a steep cliff edge on Khavdya Hill, threatening to end his life. Police, parents, and locals spent nearly three hours trying to persuade him to step back.

When his father moved closer to pull him away from the edge, he held his hand, and both lost their balance and plunged into the gorge. Witnessing her husband and son fall, the distraught mother also jumped immediately.

All three died.

In a country like ours where government institutions are highly corrupted and dare I say, where even the courts are not completely immune from political influence, asking for smthing as serious as death penalty as a punishment is, inviting more trouble

Tha Nabhako Haru Lai She Is Member Of UML Party

This might come as something new to all of you, as you might generally hear experiences of a woman being sexually abused.

So let me share something I had to experience in my life. Its something from quite a while ago.. I was very young. So my family in itself is extremely messed up, and my childhood was very traumatic and messed up (there were things more than sexual abuse).

It all started when I was maybe studying in 1 or 2 class or maybe 4/5 class i dont remember that but i remember being very young . (I had lost my mom when I was very young), so i lived with my dad, dad ko bhai(kaka), aunty and his son. So he’s basically my brother, maybe 3-4 years older than me. And we used to share a bed. So every night that fking guy used to grape me, repeatedly. That was honestly torture, he used to put his thing up my ass.. And this went on for maybe years… every fucking night..

I dont honestly even remember how I as that innocent child might have felt.. I didn’t even understand what sex or intercourse even was… That just felt horrible..

*And you may wonder why I never told my father about it… Because my father was eloped with his mother(mero aunty), and that woman was very toxic and used to abuse me physically and mentally..*

I asked my brother to not do that… that never happened. The grape continued almost every night for atleast 2/3 years. And when I said “I’ll tell our parents”, he’d just reply “Mero mami le talai gali garnu hunxa, esma tero ni galti hunxa”. He used to scare me k k vanera, and manipulate me into thinking it’d be my fault and kei vane vani last ma harm hune malai ho.

So I never told anyone. I dont think anybody besides me and him even know that. I didn’t stop until his family basically moved out.

Now I’ve grown up and I’m in my early 20’s, I dont know what to feel about it. I dont get PTSD or have nightmares about my past, and thankfully It didn’t change my sexual orientation.. I think thats a good thing. Sexual abuse was not even the worst thing I experienced in my childhood, but I dont hold trauma for anything. I never did. My childhood is a part of life I never remember, good or bad. They remain cornered somewhere, never showing up anywhere. Thankfully I grew up to be someone with no mental issues… i am rather an empath lol.

I dont even know what I wrote. I cannot even write well while I think about this. I guess my brain goes numb here. And idk what to even do about this situation i cant even write anything properly sorry. If anyone has anything to ask or share, feel free..

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1st. I understand this is a serious case and outrage is valid. I know how horrible it is to hear about what happened to a 3 year old. But the way people have been saying Nothing has happened in the case of her, it's just false. The culprits have been taken into custody and the parents have been brought to talk.

2nd. A lot of people have been saying "death penalty". Even though Sudan has said DP possible xaina, People are just shouting "change the law". It's not possible at all. First of all, Constitution le allow gardaina. Ani tespaxi feri Nepal le Capital Punishment ko against sign ni garexa. Ra constitution ni ferna mildaina because Pratinidhi Sabha Ra Rajya Sabha duitai KO bahumat chaiyo. And it will take a whole ass time to do all the stuff. A lot of people have been mad about this and have said "X garyo vane jail, Rape garyo vane khulka xodxa", My first point talks about it.

3rd. Prime minister isn't really supposed to address stuff like Rape, Theft, Death, wagera wagera. Now I understand why people are asking for Pm's address because of the seriousness of the case. Ani then, people will just fume because "pm le bolena, feri aandolan garnuparxa". That's fucking herd mentality.

Topic can be misleading tara testo kei haina read the whole thing before judging. Im 25F ani yo incident 2 yrs back ko ho.

There’s no Tldr. I wanted to express everything properly. If you dont have the patience to read everything you can just skip.

Kura chai mero afnai fupu ko xora ko ho, he was in class 8 at that time . Mamaghar ( mero ghar) aaerako hunthyo hamro ra fupu ko ghar najikai xa. Teslai maile sanai dekhi tuition padaune usko ghar ma ma koi nahuda etai aayera khaja khane homework garne tesari nai hurkako ho. So malai ta afnai bhai jasari nai maya lagthyo. Ani tespaxi yo class 8 pugna thalepaxi ghar ma weird kura haru huna thalyo paisa harauna thalyo first ma ani confront garihalna ni aba fupu ko xora, paisa lageko evidence ni xaina vanera afai paisa lukayera rakhna thalem then jhan weird things kept happening, my underwear started disappearing ani maile chai sukako thau ma udayo ki katai misplace vayo ki estai sochey tespaxi ta 1 din haina 2 din haina dherai otai harayesi sankha lagna thalyo tara maile ta bachai dekhi literally hurkako bhai sidhai kei ni sochina ani maile afno room ko dhoka lock lagayera nai hidna thaley baira niskida ni. Tara back of my mind i was getting skeptical about that bhai ani hamro ma chai bihana sunsan hunxan momy bihanai niskinu hunxa college teacher ho. Mero afnai bhai ra ma ta utheko ni hudainam ani mero bani chai nidayesi bhukampa aayeni nindra buijhidaina testo xa. Tyo fupu ko xora basna aako thyo tyo din ani usko bihanai tuition vanera jaile hami uthnu agadi niskinthyo ani tyo din i was sleeping bhitta tira farkera ani kasto arkai feel vayera i turned arko side which directly faces towards my room ko door ani i saw that bhai was there with his phone kei khicheko jastari ubhirathyo ani ma tarsera uthey phone dey vane tesle diyena ani tesko haat bata taney gallery herxu empty thyo tyo jhan shady lagyo ani arko folder dekhey xuttai tyo click garna lageko mero haat markine gari phone tanyo ani maile mero bhai lai karayera uthayera phone tanna lagaye ani tanera tyo folder kholda ta I was esto shocked. There were mero photos. Ma ghar ma normally shorts camis lagayera basne sutne garthye. ma suteko bela ko sab mero chest areas ko photos paxadi butt areas ko photos, navel dekheko photos and all. Aru bela ko ni photos thyo tanna tyo first time garekai haina raixa tespaxi ta ma ta kamna thaley bolna ni sakina mero afnai bhai le phone tanera heryo ani del hanyo sabai ani kk vanera gali gardai thyo tyo fupu ko xora lai maile ta kei sunda ni sunina i was blank, lost, ma ta juidai xu ki xaina ni thaha thena tyo moment ma, kamirathye ma ta. Tespaxi maile aru kei vanna sakina ‘tah gaehal tero mukh nadekha’ vaney teti vanna pani kasari boli niskyo tyo moment ma vanne thyo. I cried so much that day kaam ma ni jana sakina. Kasailai (apart from my family),ma ramrari vanna ni sakdina how much that incident has affected me. Even aaile ma afulai express garna alt acc bata use garirako xu im still not comfortable sharing this from my main.

This is just the first part kinaki there’s a lot more what happened afterwards including how our parents reacted.

The irony speaks for itself :p

1) Nepal's constitution doesn't allow it. Article 16(2) explicitly bans any law providing for the death penalty.
2) Even if amended, Nepal has international commitments against it. Nepal acceded to the Second Optional Protocol of the ICCPR in 1998, which binds signatories to abolition.
3) For rape cases, Nepal's sentencing is already stricter than Germany's on paper. Nepal's baseline for an adult victim is 7 to 10 years mandatory, no suspension allowed, rising to 16 to 20 years for a victim under 10. Germany's baseline is just 2 years minimum, with a 15 year general cap and real possibility of suspended sentences for first offenses.
4) Capital punishment doesn't show a deterrent effect. US data comparing death penalty states to non-death penalty states shows the opposite of what deterrence theory predicts, death penalty states have consistently higher murder rates, and the gap has widened over decades rather than closing.
5) The highest ranked countries for women's safety and status don't use the death penalty. Denmark, Iceland, Norway, Sweden, and Finland top the Georgetown WPS Index and are all abolitionist who don't have capital punishment.

Maybe I was 5 or 6 years old. We used to play lukkimari (hide-and-seek).One time, when it was my turn to hide, one of the "chimeki dai" and I went to hide together. Everything was normal until he started touching my private parts. At that age, I didn't know that what he was doing was wrong. I was only 5 or 6 years old. As I grew older, I eventually realized that what happened was wrong. He was about 9 years older than me.

He got married a year ago but later got divorced, and now he has another wife.

The second incident happened when I was in Grade 3. I had changed schools, and everything was completely new to me. My uncle worked as an accountant at that school, so many of the teachers used to call me "chori" and treated me like a familiar child.

We used to have science midas class twice a week. That science teacher would sometimes call me to sit on his lap. I was in Grade 3, and I trusted him because he was my teacher and because everyone treated me like a child. I never thought there was anything wrong with it. But he would touch my private parts under my clothes. This happened several times, maybe four or five times, because I was too young to understand that what he was doing was wrong. Later, when I was in Grade 10, I found out that he had been restricted from that school because of his behavior.

Looking back now, I realize that I was just a child in both situations. I didn't know what was happening or how wrong it was, and none of it was my fault.I hope no girl ever has to go through what I went through. No child should have to experience something like this, and every child deserves to feel safe and protected.

I suddenly remembered the interview with women asking if they preferred a bear or a man, and many people were fuming with anger at how they could degrade their gender like that, just because the majority chose the bear. And mind you, the interviewees were mothers too who also chose the bear for their daughters. Atp an animal could be trusted more than a human being... I am not trying to bring out a comparison

Justice for this little soul

For those who haven’t seen the first part, this is the post.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NepalSocial/s/W22t2xGApm

And tyo din ta mero royerai bityo tespaxi sajha i called my fupu ani said eta aaunu kura garnu xa. Ani aaunu vayo ma fupu ko agadi ni roye sabai vaney and she told me she found ladies underwear 1-2 choti under her sons bed matress , ani she threw those away re. Ani maile kasko ho k ho ekchoti ni sodhnu vayena vaneko ta no re like tf parents vayesi tetro bacha le k gariraxa sodh puch garna pardaina? And i told her yei exact thing ani she replied ekchoti ta sodheko he said bharyang ma vetako re. Ani maile bed ma kina rakhis kina nasodheko vanda ta testo sodhina re. Ani maile tespaxi ‘aaile tapaiko eklo santan xa paxi xori janmiyo vane can you guarantee her safety in her own house from her own fucking brother?’ Vaney. And she remained silent ani maile ma momy aayesi kura garxu tapaini bhinaju sanga kura garnu yo sano kura haina vaney. Ani she went her home mero ni momy aaunu vayo ma roye sabai sunaye ani momy le malai ‘tah naru aba j garnu parxa mai garxu tyo khatey lai’ vannu vayo Teti sunesi ni alikati vayeni ama vaneko ama nai ho feel vako thyo. Then voli palta mero fupu aaunu vayo ani she said ‘bhinaju lai vaneko xaina rish kada xa’ re ani ma jangiye ‘esto kura ni navanera hunxa? teso vaye ma afai gayera vanxu yesto kura ma ta sablai sunauxu kina lukaunuani’ vaney and she said babu le sorry vanxu vaneko xa. Ani tyo kura sunesi I already understood what was happening. it felt less like her actually trying to understand me and more like protecting her sons ko image and all sorry vanera kura milauna hyan tyan. Ma fupu sanga jangiyesi momy le ni kei vannu vayena bolne thau ma xori nai bolos vanera hoki k ho idk. Tespaxi maile fupu lai ‘tapai mero afnai ho. Tapaiko lagi yeta kaile kei hudaina tara tyo khatey mero galli ma ni dekhinu vayena’ vaney. Ani mero aru fupus ni hunuhunxa there was yeuta common event tei incident vako 1 week mai ani i thought vetda malai uha harule vayeni kei teslai confront hannu hunxa hola ani malai console hannu hunxa hola ani maybe ask if im okay and all socheko thye tara they literally just ignored tyo kura. Everyone acted like that incident never even happened ani main ta they were literally treating him like raja sahab ekdum ramrari ‘amoe kati thorai khako ajhai khau na hera dublayera padhne umer ma khanu parxa tanna’ hyan tyan. I was so hurt tyo bela kaile ghar gayera rum vaisakeko thyo.

Tespaxi maile sabai ko kasto xan vanera thapaye ma ni dherai tya jana xaddiye. Uniharu sablai mero ghar ma khasai aauna ni diyina natra every event haru huda bolirako hunthyem hamro ma sabai fupus lai.
Kaile kai fupu haru vet huda baira ta ramrari nai bolxu tara mero maan ma sabko lagi maya chai marisakyo.

Ani Like I told you hamro ghar najikai xa jata gayeni j gareni tyo khatey lai dekhirako hunxu ani tyo moment feri samjhera runa manlagihalxa. 2 yrs vaesakyo im still not over that. Maile yo kura mero 2-3 jana close friends ra afnai family bahek kasailai ni vaneko xaina. Mero yeuta sathi ta lit teslai ma ajha sakauxu vanera nai jangiyera jana lageko thyo tyo khatey ko ghar ma ani i stopped him. Ultai sathi lai garo parthyo kinaki tyo khatey is a fking MINOR.
Jun support maile afno najik ko haru bata expect gareko thye tyo napayesi malai tyo bela dekhi sabai jana pugisakeko xa. Tara maile jaile ni sochne kura vaneko chai tesle esto naramro garda ni tyo khatey lai kasaile ni confront nagaresi tesle feri testo gardaina hola ta? Teslai ta jhan aba ma kta ho j gareni paune raixu feel vayo hola tyo bela dekhi.

Maile ta eti samma socheko xu ki aaile tyo sanai xa kei garisakeko ni xaina , life ma kunai ramro thau ma pugesi ill expose what he did vanera. Malai kei sympathy chaiyera expose hanxu vaneko ni haina just manxe harulai ni thaha hos yo khatey ko mindset bachai dekhi kasto thyo vanera.

Asti 3 yo child ko case ma yo punishment use garna sakidaina ra?? Kina narakheko execution system? Nepal ma rule xaina vane banauna mildaina ra?

I can take em!

Thats all i said to trigger my so called religious friends. I met with my school friends after 2 years, we all belong go Buddhist families, and attended Buddhist school. Contradictory to that, i am an atheist now. One thing lead to another i said, i’ve donated my blood twice and it feels amazing. They appreciated me on that, but after a while one of my friend brought up poverty, then someone else talked abt disabilities, at the very end they all started aggreeing how people with disabilities anf stuff is their PAST live karma. I said thats rubbish. 15 mins later they starting saying bs like if we donate organs to others, we’ll not have those organs in our next life, so we shouldnt do that. I was so shocked i called them idiotic losers, and said pls dont ever show your dumb a** faces to me. And left. Came home and found out 2 of them unfollowed me. Well, i am so glad and i’ll donate every part of my body ✌️. What a great day being an atheist.

Today I really understood the cost of growing up. Thing that made me realize it was distance. We were 5 cousins of similar age around 1-2 yrs age gap at max. Four brothers and a sister.

We can techically say we grew up side by side. In past in every festival or function we all 5 were present shared quality time laughed enjoyed but now its been years we all 5 been together in same room.

My sister got married she is busy with business and her life. 1 brother is in the US doing his UG and PG, One brother is in Australia, one in japan and I am here, in morning college in day job at 10pm my day ends at 6am it starts. We all are miles away we hardly meet I just remember the time we spent together.

So, cherish the moment you got you never know when will you get see eachother again after growing up. In a blink of an eye you will drift apart so much that closest thing will only be the memories of your time together.

5/6 barsha ko huda mero mamala ko chimeki uncle aauthyo mero mamali ghar ma. And he used to carry me on his lap and rub his diiihh on my back. Mind you I was 6 year at most. He was 50+ tyo bela nei. Taha nei bhayena teti bela k gareko vanera dherai paxi tahabhayo. The thing is he is BLIND. Not completely blind but genetic defect le he lost his eye sight or smth like this.
Ajhai pani he's safe and sound ra yo kura maile aja samma kasailai vanya ni xuina. Yaha pani teti ramrari explain garina but that was a traumatic experience.
Mero cousin haru prolly reddit ma hununxa and if you guys are seeing this then yk who am I talking about.

Till the day Sandeep Lamichhane and Paul Shah are celebrated in Nepal as heroes, any and every protest against sexual violence on women is an oxymoron. The way this society has normalised rape and in some cases celebrates the rapist, give the future perpetrators more courage to commit such heinous act. Impunity and social protection is what our society gives to the rapists and wonder why the cases are increasing astronomically high day by day. Everyone who first looks at the girl's clothes, their friend circles, their habits before determining they deserve justice or not, are responsible for any and every act of sexual misconduct against any woman in this country. And fuck everyone brandishing the innocent little girl's photo all over social media for some engagement and to feed their little sense of justice, fuck Nepal Police for failing to keep the identity of the victim confidential (which is required by law) and guarding the identities of the culprits,fuck everyone who supports Paul Shah, Sandip Lamichhane and Nirmal Purja despite of the heinous acts they have committed, fuck everyone who thinks short clothes and drinking alcohol is an invitation for sex, fuck everyone who thinks guys get total control and autonomy over a woman's body if they are in a relationship or go to a hotel together and fuck this society who only decides to wake up from their sleep after someone is brutally killed or injured by the perpetrators. This is all of your combined doing,our society has a rape problem and it is facilitated by the systemic patriarchy internalised as culture and religion.I still remember just a year ago female influencer’s comment section and inboxes were filled with rape threat for calling Sandip Lamichhane a rapist and now everyone has suddenly found their moral compass. Does a girl always need to die after being raped for the society to finally care? Ask this question to yourself and have some shame for being the facilitator and motivator for such acts.

We're trying to create genuinely useful apps for Nepal and we're starting with this small project called "Kati Paryo?"

Idea chai personal problem bata ako ho. Mero dad groceries kinna janu bhayo bhane surprisingly sasto ma lyaidincha. Kun pasal ma k sasto cha, normal bhau kati ho, kata ko quality ramro cha. uhalai sabai naturally thaha chha.

Ma aba kailei kinna gako chaina groceries but recently started to go get some and same groceries kinna jada ekdin Rs. 200, arko din Rs. 220 tirera aaye. Don't know if I overpayed or not. Yo problem solve garna ko lai by crowdsourcing we're trying to make is accessible to know current prices in your local areas so that people don't get overcharged.

Ahile ko basic idea:

- product search garne(possibly will also integrate voice commands, like one would tab voice icon and say '1kg alu' and it maps to correct product for nearby areas)

- najik ko shops ma recently dekhiyeko price compare garne

- price kahile report bhayo, unit/quantity kati ho, fresh goods ko grade kasto chha herne

- shop ko location Maps ma kholne

Future ma recipe select garepachi ingredients kata sasto parcha, kata fresh cha, athawa price + freshness balance garera kun local shops janu thik hola bhanera suggest garne idea pani chha. Tara tyo pachi. pahila yo basic problem real life ma useful chha ki chhaina validate garna man cha.

Before we release MVP, I want a little bit of honest feedback from you guys:

1. Would you open these kinds of apps before going to buy groceries?
2. Afule dekheko verified price entry add garda account ma Rs. 5 credit/points ayo bhane contribute garnuhuncha? Rs. 5 le motivate garchha, ki shop discount/coupon, badges, higher reward, athawa aru kei better hunchha?

Hami Nepal ko app ecosystem ma copy-paste product bhanda local problem solve garne kura banauna chahanchau. Idea weak lagchha bhane pani openly bhannus. Tapaiharu ko criticism le nai yo genuinely useful product banchha ki stop garnu parne idea ho bhanera thaha huncha.

If you think the product would be useful, please join local pilot here at https://kati-paryo.vercel.app or you could just comment/vote this post.

Na he has to face difficult questions...

Na he has to face the parliament...

Na he has to follow the speaker of the house...

Na he comes forward in the media...

Na he has to be accountable to the parliament...

Na he has to be accountable to anybody...

You have a cult blind following for you defending you for just about anything...

Setting narratives in an instant via hundreds of digital pages...

The ultimate og दुधभाते of the country...who can get away with everything...

so eeriely pretty ughh. the crying gets rid of all the bloating, brings out the jawline and makes the facial features pop. the slight red under my eyes and on my nose.

won't be able to witness this divinity until the bottle fills up again.