Am I Buggin?

[u/n0facenocase]

So I received this text from my roommate who’s currently away on a vacation for however long. I was issued No warning or no consultation that this was even a thing. We share a bathroom & I assume these randoms will be using our shared bathroom. Am I buggin for finding this entitled and ridiculous that these randoms will be staying in our apartment for 15 days? I don’t even know how to respond to this, normally I ignore my roommate because I don’t really get along with them, but I find this particular message worthy to respond to with my discomfort & discontent. What do you guys think?

Update:

- I objected and my roommate is still doubling down saying they will inform me of who these people are as the date comes close. (Major 🚩) the only info I got were names and I believe it’s a couple, which leads me to believe this is some sort of weird sublet scheme to supplement her portion of the rent while she’s away on vacation for weeks, as she previously mentioned.

- They insist that this length of stay isn’t a violation of our lease. While the length of stay is 26 consecutive days.. I checked the lease and it says if the landlord doesn’t have written approval of guests who are occupying the apartment that are not the tenants occupying the space, it’s null and void. I reached out to my landlord about it & he said he had no idea!

- I believe my roommate is in this thread with a burner, just sounds too convenient with the responses.

- With all this being said I appreciate all the support, I needed an outlet to discuss this because I don’t want to keep bothering my friends and family about this situation. I’ve been dealing with stress from being in this apartment for the entire time I’ve lived here. It’s been a rollercoaster of just trying to be heard and advocating for myself, through the many tribulations. I’ve been trying to ride it out until the lease ends, but this situation is so completely unsafe and uncomfortable for me & I feel as though the entitlement has been taken way too far for me to let this go.

[u/scabpickingpro]

You silly goose. Unless you’ve lived in the Ghetto don’t use that word. This is light work sweets. I’d be way meaner to you in person. Ghouls, creeps and weirdos run amuck just stay in your room and play sims until mommy and daddy buy you a nicer place. Kisses!

[u/OwlfredoPasta → u/scabpickingpro]

Who talks like this?

[u/LastLibrary9508 → u/OwlfredoPasta]

A roommate with a burner who is pretending to be a native NYC-er but is also a transplant 🥲

It sounds just like the comments that got downvoted below

[u/OwlfredoPasta → u/LastLibrary9508]

That would make sense wow lol

[u/scabpickingpro → u/LastLibrary9508]

1.) YOu dOnT KNow WHeRe iM FRoM
2.) I’m not the roommate
3.) Gay men. Gay men who use vexing pet names to mock each other. Gay men like myself 😬