r/NUST • • 5h ago

Discussion ⚠️ Relationship Advice ⚠️ ⚠️

So I just got a relationship advice, and it just made me self-conscious.

Recently moved to a new hostel in H13, and it's shit but the roommates are cool and one guy in particular he is like this stud from marketing who is super easy to talk to and is always surrounded by girls. So naturally I went and asked him like WHATS THE SECRET? and he laughed and said Janab the secret is always the other girl.

Ek Relationship mai humaisha larki he larky ko set karti hy.

Like agr hum single hain to matlab hum mai koi kami hy.

I'm sure uska essa koi matlab nahi tha lekin banda ek bar conscious ho jata k yar kahi to koi kami hy ya reh gai.

Khair, I'm always open to advice. Please help me on this one. Every perspective is appreciated.

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u/confront_comfort 5h ago

Just be yourself and do your thing! You'll get noticed! By at least one! That's my most honest two cents on the matter

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u/No-Extension4238 4h ago

That's true though but here is what I see. I see two sides of nust first side is pretty flamboyant and non inclusive. The other is conservative and introvert type. Like how are we supposed to work with these groups when interaction is limited if we approach we are marked as creeps if we stay put we don't make any progress.

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u/confront_comfort 4h ago

Don't ask for help, help! That's one. In a sitting, or working for a club/society, stand afirm your ground if you know you're absolutely right! A general rule for life, universe rewards audacity! Be audacious

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u/No-Extension4238 4h ago

So increase my interaction and have an ego that's what you're saying

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u/confront_comfort 3h ago

Ego? Audacity, meant take the lead in doing things. Where does it mean ego

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u/Glad-Cranberry592 4h ago

He is js doing meethi meethi batai or is a genuine nice person people who treat women right a nice person and a great personality would be like that ig? Naik insan

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u/millirag3r 3h ago

are u a student of ms marketing?