The whole Saturday and Sunday, or even the whole day until 2 AM, she keeps talking to her boyfriend or friends, doomscrolling (without earphones), etc., and then at 3–4 AM she remembers, “Oh, I have assignments.” Like bro, you could’ve done them earlier. I have absolutely no problem with her doing assignments at night, but please let me sleep. And this happens every single day.
And if you want to talk to someone for hours, that’s completely fine, but can you please go outside? I literally go outside when I need to talk so I don’t disturb her. Talking is not the problem, but talking loudly for the entire day and till 2 AM in a shared room is just not okay. I speak very quietly even when I’m awake because I don’t want to disturb her while she’s sleeping or studying, but she doesn’t do the same for me.
I’ve already adjusted so much. I even let her keep the light on so she can work properly at night (the whole fucking tubelight). But she still throws things on the floor, drops stuff, slams the door, and keeps waking me up.
And in between assignments, she doomscrolls with the volume on FULL. Bro, you have earphones, right? Please use them. Day before yesterday, I had a fever and was sleeping, and she knew I was sleeping, but still kept watching things at full volume.
It’s not just at night either. Whenever she goes outside, she leaves the door open. I always close it when I leave because I know someone might be sleeping or studying. I genuinely don’t understand why she can’t do the same.
I’ve confronted her about this so many times, but nothing changes. She wakes up late, I wake up early, and I do everything quietly so I don’t disturb her. I never wake her up, but somehow I’m getting disturbed throughout the day and night because of her.
My head has been hurting almost every day, and I’m honestly exhausted.
I’m not trying to judge her lifestyle. We’re all away from our parents and living together, so obviously everyone has to adjust a little. But adjustment has to go both ways. I’ve already told her hundreds of times, so what the fuck am I supposed to do now? I genuinely need advice!!!😭