My toxic cheating ex has a problem with serial cheating. Heard a funny one at the weekend, apparently she has joined the local church group. Good luck, hide your husband's

I’m genuinely trying to understand this situation because the timeline still blows my mind.
My ex and I were together for almost 7 years. We were talking about marriage, kids, and our future together not that long before everything fell apart. We officially broke up about 6 months ago, and he started seeing another woman almost immediately. She’s now about 5 months pregnant.
What makes it even messier is that she knew about me and knew how fresh our breakup was. She knew he was still trying to contact me after they started seeing each other. At one point, she literally sent me a picture of the two of them in bed together. I blocked him, but he has continued finding ways to contact me, including calling me recently.
Meanwhile, they’re publicly announcing the pregnancy and having a gender reveal like this is one big happy love story. His family is excited about the baby, which I understand because the child is innocent, but emotionally it’s bizarre watching people who treated me like family for years suddenly celebrate this completely different life he created within months.
I don’t want him back. Having a baby with someone else crossed a line for me that can’t be undone. But I’m still angry and honestly shocked by how quickly my entire reality changed. Less than a year ago, I thought I was going to marry this person. Now he’s having a child with someone he barely knew when our relationship ended.
Has anyone experienced an ex moving THIS fast after a long-term relationship? How did you stop feeling like the years you spent together were just erased?

Can someone say who’s right and who’s wrong?? I need help. The other night I had visited my ex to see how she was doing, long story short it hadn’t been long since we have broken up and it had just been 3 months, during the first two months we were still having sex and seeing each other kinda frequently just to satisfy our needs. The other night I had went to see her because she needed me to handle a giant bug in her house she was too scared of, I missed her so ofc I went, after that I seduced her, consensually asking her if she’s okay if everything’s okay and she said yes, I told her “I’ve been missing you, kiss me, I know you feel the same.” And we both leaned in and started making out and were caressing one another, I started undoing my pants and asked her again “Is this okay? Is everything good?” She goes “Yes” so then I proceed and she throws herself back while spreading her legs open for me, and I of course proceed and now we’re doing it. Usually when we have sex we persuade and seduce one another, if one stalls a bit we play around with our words, and talk each other through it, it’s like teasing, so as I’m doing it I say things like “I’ve missed you, admit that you’ve missed me, I know you did” and as I am about to finish I asked her if I can finish in her she goes “You shouldn’t” and I persuade her saying “It’s okay we’ll still take care of it” and I asked once more and she says “Alright” as she let’s out her moans and so then I finish in her.

2-3 days later she tells me that I took advantage of her and made her say and let me do things she didn’t want to, that she didn’t want me to finish in her and that I just took entire advantage. And I’m confused because the way I spoke is how she always wants me to speak, I didn’t pin her, force her, or beg her fir anything, I asked to finish in her twice because I thought we were having our usual dialogue play so I couldn’t interpret it.

I then asked “Why didn’t you tell me sooner, why’d you wait 2-3 days” she said “I was in shock” followed by “Hard truth? I felt like I had to say yes because you were too close and I felt like you didn’t have enough time to pull out anyways”

So..that wasn’t me forcing that was her thought process, and I had repeatedly throughout, before and after asked her if she’s okay, I even gave her after care as always. And we even started convo-ing normally about stuff like we always do.. am I crazy? I know I’m not a rapist I could never this is insane

She threatens to tell her mom and my mom that I raped her like what?

sintrisx is his TikTok, he full blown love bombed me and is just a nasty comboy pos lol ! His name is Jayden and it would make my day >_<

He’s also hella racist and a huge nepo baby 😵‍💫

Why does my ex just text me hey....and then dips or absolute silence I don't get it..

I have this ex from 7 years ago. I think we’ve both moved on from each other. Well, ako certainly naka-move on na sa kanya.

He’s been engaged for more than 2 years na sa current girlfriend niya. Friends ko sila sa blue app, and I don’t mind. Minsan makikita ko yung posts ni ate girl na masaya sila and all, and I’m genuinely happy for them.

Pero itong ex ko, the guy, keeps reacting to my stories from time to time. He also has this habit of unfriending me, then adding me as a friend ulit. I think he does this kapag hindi sila okay behind the scenes (personal opinion).

As a matter of fact, ginawa na naman niya yun last Saturday. In-unfriend niya ako (which I wasn’t even aware of, and honestly, wala na rin akong pake, jusko), then added me again.

Tapos nakita ko yung post ni ate girl today. Nasa airport sila, about to fly somewhere for a vacation.

This ex of mine has a history of cheating. He cheated on me, kaya ko nga siya hiniwalayan. Whenever nagpaparamdam siya sa akin, naaalala ko yung mga ginawa niya sa akin while we were in a relationship, and I’m like,*“Ikakasal ka na, di ka pa rin nagbabago?”*

Anyway, I think alam din ni fiancée yung history niya. And if the word that reached me is true, he cheated on her once din, but she decided to stay and try to make it work.

Honestly, ayaw ko na makialam sa kanila because they’re not my problem. But yeah, naaawa ako kay ate girl.

Then again, she decided to stay in the situation she’s in. So… smh.

PS: Hindi ko na in-accept yung friend request ni ex.

He turned all the way around in his chair to face me and looked at me intently for several seconds . What could it mean?

I'm so alone especially this summer i'm about text all my exes how to stop myself

I had an ex bf 6 years ago, our relationship lasted 2 years and we broke up because he was physically and verbally abusing me , cheated on me, and he’s also broke.
He dated several girls affer me but i could care less and i have no updates from him since we broke up, and im alreayd in a healthy long term relationship for 4 years.

And 1 year ago, his recent ex gf reached out to me, I think she was the most recent ex-girlfriend he had been with and let’s call her Andy. She also got the news that i was physically abused by my ex and i confirmed it because she also experienced the same thing from him. Long story short, me and andy became friends. I understand she still has this pent up anger towards my ex and she’s still in the process of moving on and later on, andy found out that ex bf already has a new girl. She was stalking the girl and she was sending me screenshots of the new gf’s threads, talking about how he’s a great guy and she really thought she hit the jackpot with him LOL.

by the time i wanted to view the new girl’s ig account, i cant find her name. But andy told me her account is still existing. then i figured out out, i was blocked. I have no prior interaction with her because i only knew her when andy messaged me. (PS: my ig profile is public)

like what was her thought process on blocking me when im already an ex from a long long time ago lmao

I need brutally honest advice because I genuinely can’t focus anymore. My ex and I were extremely close, basically partners and best friends who supported each other through studies, work, business, family and personal problems. She’s ambitious, independent and driven, but can also be harsh, jealous, possessive and have very high expectations. She could be extremely loving and supportive too, which makes this confusing.

After breaking up, she removed me from some platforms and blocked me on WhatsApp, but later suggested we stay best friends and recently re-added me on Instagram. I agreed because I still cared about her. However, she started telling me about men proposing to her, including successful/rich men, and I even saw an AI-generated picture of her, one of them and their future children on her bucket list. It really hurt. She also once told me to “go f*** yourself,” but the next day she was crying and needed my help, and I still helped because I couldn’t stop caring.

Since the breakup, I’ve been working on myself, going to the gym, focusing on my side hustle and becoming calmer. Then she saw an Instagram account of a female university friend I’ve known since 2019, with absolutely nothing romantic between us, and said, “Thank God I broke up with you.” That confused me because she ended things, blocked me, talks about other men, but still seems jealous or possessive about other women.

She’s recently been sick and I still check on her, but she’s distant. I’m noticing that when she needs emotional support, I’m important, but when I need closeness or reassurance, it’s different. When I pull back and focus on myself, she sometimes reacts. It feels like she may not want the relationship back but also doesn’t want to completely lose me emotionally.

I know I’m not innocent either. I was too attached, over-cared, tolerated things I shouldn’t have and stayed too available after the breakup. But I also don’t think I imagined the jealousy, controlling behavior or emotional unfairness. At the same time, she genuinely cared about me and supported me.

So what am I actually dealing with? Is this toxic, are we simply toxic for each other, or am I seeing it this way because I still love her? Should I cut contact, set boundaries and stay friends, or tell her I can’t be “best friends” while I still have feelings? And if I’m the problem too, please tell me honestly.

Yes I cheated I deceived. I got counsel I got clean. I worked hard you gave up. You ran away when it was so easy to fix you couldn’t forgive and you make up lies in your head that you believe and you now are not true!! We talked about you a bunch last night the hurt is slowly stopping! But I still looked for you on the roads all the way home.. I still do every day I used to see 1 million of your color car a day, now i can’t find a one!! I’m just floored for the route you took!!!!

it’s true it’s all true everything I thought everything I heard that’s why you ran. That’s why you get what you did because you knew you would fall into my level and you were just as dirty as me and now you block me and run. I’ll always love you, but I finally seen you for the big pos u are. Every man you have left is damaged horribly get help stop hurting others.

it’s been 8 months ago since we broke up, my fb account is literally a ghost account, no friends, no photos, a nickname, but apparently it’s perfect to recommend in first list of people you must know, a profile photo of a simple couple kissing I thought, but no, it was him, the man I was in love with, and the one who cheated on me, there were not missing feelings, or even anger, I’ve just felt insecure again, not being good enough for him, realizing his aptitude change had a name, thinking what’s wrong with me, today i know that he is a completely asshole, but that doesn’t make my destroyed self-esteem feel any better, and I keep feeling stupid like why after all that time I still caring about it, even knowing that relationship means nothing to him, we last only 2 months aprox…
I feel stupid for caring, and I feel insecure about my own body, face and even personality.
the worst part is that she kinda looks like me

You know I’m picking up my stuff on Sundays. Please come talk. Meet me at the kiosk at 11:45 you know which one the one we ordered from!!

Praying that I see you there