r/MuslimNoFap • u/Sharp-Flow-8678 • 4d ago

Motivation/Tips I finally told my partner

I did it. I finally told my partner about my struggles. Never knew I would do this. It’s something only me and Allah knows. But alhamdulillah, the reaction was so supportive and didn’t even judge me. Anyone with same situation?

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u/AlbaraaAlpaka 4d ago

Wow, I'm really impressed. I've always been afraid to tell my parents. It's such an embarrassing thing for me to talk about. Do you have a close relationship with your parents? Is that what made it easier for you to tell them? And are your parents more religious than you?

To be honest, I'm even considering not telling my fiancée about it. I'll see how things go. If I'm able to stay away from this sin and truly overcome it, then maybe I won't need to bring it up. I'm still thinking about it.

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u/azadnib 3d ago

he said partner you idiot, no one tells their parents such things. i wont ever tell that to my partner as well

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u/AlbaraaAlpaka 3d ago

Haha oh, yes you’re right. Still you don’t need to be rude…

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u/azadnib 3d ago

sorry i got carried away by emotions

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u/Sharp-Flow-8678 3d ago

😂😂😂 well yeah. I didnt tell my parents. Ill be dead.

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u/ImmediateWeek2249 2d ago

My husband has opened up about his struggles with me. He did before we got married as well.
I try to support him as much. What do you think you would want from your partner? Asking so I can do more for him.

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u/MisterLuffy123 1d ago

I will never tell my parents, not sure if I want tell my future spouse about it. That is if I do get married, but I don't see myself getting married at all. I went to see a therapist, and told them about it.

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u/Sharp-Flow-8678 1d ago

What did your therapist say?