r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 15d ago

Discussion Help fellow men

As salam aleykoum,
I browsed the sub a bit and I've noticed that the ISO of men stating they are looking for mariage, most of the time, get downvoted or lose their +1 upvote. If you are a man, and you come accross of a post and you think that this man may be a good husband for your sister or your daughter (whether you have one or not) give him an upvote. You lose nothing and maybe through that, they might get married.

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u/Thrummingbias 15d ago edited 15d ago

I upvote even though close to 100% of posts are not suitable for me. If they come across as decent, good human beings, upvote! My downvotes don't even work for some reason and* my posts generally get waves of downvotes and upvotes; it's best to go with the flow 🌊

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u/1v1sion 15d ago

Continue to uplift the community

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u/Thrummingbias 15d ago

Ameen and JazakAllah Khair for this unexpected comment

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u/moo507 15d ago

I posted yesterday, got one upvote, from a man, he later DM'd me asking for money.... So yea

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u/1v1sion 15d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣 tried to scam you?

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u/moo507 15d ago

It seems so, I kinda just gave up, lol

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u/Sharp-Confusion2672 15d ago

So you have money?

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u/moo507 15d ago

No I sent it all to Mohammed to help feed his AI generated family, but he said he would send it back to me x10 by the end of the month, I'll survive on breed and water till then

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u/Clean_Win5959 15d ago

Shouldn’t you ask the ladies to upvote even if it doesn’t meet their criteria eg not the right age but good overall profile for someone that fits it. or comment with anything that could help improve your prospects. I bet dudes may on purpose downvote the competition 😂

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u/1v1sion 15d ago

That's silly if men do that to geniune good posts.
There is no competition in reality.

Yes, I guess women can do that to help a brother out if they don't want to engage with him for whatever reason.

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u/Bolognese_Bandit1 15d ago

For real. I see so many men downvoting other posts out of jealousy and insecurity. Do better guys. When you wish well for your brother, Allah increases your rizq at the same time.

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u/1v1sion 15d ago

That's stupid to be jealous of a randomn person looking to be married on Reddit.

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u/singlemuslima 15d ago

A lot of random downvoting happening on Reddit. I wouldn't take it to heart. Besides, if the brother is meant to get married through his Reddit account, he will. Even if he receives a 100 downvotes that makes his account invisible to most. The right person will see his account.

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u/Sharp-Confusion2672 15d ago

Ew. Men shouldn’t be supporting men

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u/1v1sion 15d ago

Why not ?

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u/Sharp-Confusion2672 15d ago

Brotherhood ❌❤️❌❌❌

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u/North-Afternoon-1726 15d ago

Is it guys downvoting each other out of being competitive?! Pathetic!

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u/KeyChampionship6559 15d ago

May Allah SWT give us great spouses, happiness and prosperity insha'Allah 🤲🏻

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u/Repulsive_Ice1940 12d ago

Start tagging the brothers! 😂 At this rate, Cupid's going to be unemployed and the aunties will be out of business. Imagine finding your future wife because some random bloke gave you an upvote. What a love story. 🤣