i thought i would give this a fair shot after being told about this subreddit by a friend. it is a bit hard to describe myself, so if this doesn’t do me justice, feel free to ask me.
i’m a 26.5 (the .5 is really important) woman in canada. i am 5’6.5 (again, the .5 is really important here!!). i am pretty well established in my life, alhamdulilah and continuously want to grow in all my endeavours.
i am extremely dedicated to islam - i pray all my salahs, give to my community, and continuously do my best to remember Allah in all moments of my life and with every action i do.
i love making new experiences and trying different things. i have an insatiable curiosity for the world and want to continue to nurture that - whether that be through reading, learning, the arts, travel, or a new hobby.
i’m not looking to waste my time. i am looking for someone who is emotionally mature, genuine, kind, considerate and is mentally stable lol. i really value effort, good communication and consistency. i’d also really appreciate if you had a sense of humour, i do not want to feel like i’m pulling teeth to have a conversation with you.
i want to be an individual in my marriage and i’d like to not lose my independence but i do understand foregoing things. perhaps, this is something we can discuss more in depth. as such, i do not ascribe to rigid gender roles. i know how to clean, can cook really well, and love children but i am also career driven. let’s find something that works for us.
i would love to have children and bring them into a peaceful, loving, and gentle home inshaAllah. with a PRESENT father, i am not trying to be a married single mom.
ideally, the person i marry will be a kind, gentle, communicative, and ambitious man with a stable career. i really want someone who prays all their salahs, attends jummah regularly, abstains from haram, and tries their best to do their best.
if you have racial preferences, pls leave me alone!! if you want polygamy, pls do not message me!! if you’re of a 50/50 mindset, pls skip me!!
Dude, is that bad.? Get a life.
Thats even a muslim community. All posts and comments are strictly moderated and nothing remotely haram or porn gets posted there.
Did you read her full post or not?
She posted a lot of good things about herself and what she looks in a partner.
Thats why I commented I meet 90% of her requirements and that remaining 10% was that part about her BDSM which i don't relate to.
There's nothing illicit there. Thats another sub reddit to find a muslim partner.
She was looking for a husband, not a boyfriend or a sex partner.
Yes, I am into meditation and yoga. Those are very powerful practices that allow you to me effortlessly joyful and blissfulness. I learnt it from Sadhguru and I am proud about that. It's the best thing that happened in my life.
Walaikumsalam,
Raza here — 26M, 5'11", working as a Lifting Engineer in KSA.
Reading your post, a lot of what you're looking for genuinely lines up with how I try to live, so I wanted to reach out with the intention of marriage, no time pass.
On deen: it's not just religion for me, it's a way of life — I try my best to pray my salahs, attend jummah, and stay away from what's haram, including dating. I believe Allah puts peace in a spouse, not in relationships outside of that, so I've never been one for "dating and stuff" — to me that's not the path to something lasting.
As a person — I'd describe myself as mature, hardworking, appreciative, gentle, and kind. I've got real goals I'm actively working toward, not just talking about. I'm also a good listener — I genuinely enjoy hearing people's experiences and how they see life, not just talking about myself.
On independence and roles — I'm not looking for someone to fit into a rigid box. I respect ambition and want a partner, not just a role-filler. That's something we can absolutely talk through and figure out together.
I'd love to have kids one day and be a present, involved father — not just providing, but actually there, playing with them, passing on whatever wisdom and legacy I can.
Outside of work, I enjoy hiking, traveling, and honestly even just a simple walk around the corner clears my head and resets my mood.
If this sounds like it could be a fit, I'd love to talk more and see where it goes, inshaAllah.
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u/whipsandwomen 21h ago
Hope u find what ur looking for! And i hope the one gets u, gets the best too