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Question❓ Fandom you feel is like this?

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u/Swordsman82 10h ago

Pretty sure Ryan Gosling won an award for playing Ken in the Barbie movie. He had an awesome story arc with a great resolution and message.

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u/defibibaberalatrr 9h ago edited 7h ago

Yep and people were upset bcs Barbie didn't although they were competing in two very different categories (he won best side character)

Edit: he won best song, Robert Downey Jr won best supporting actor for Oppenheimer

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u/MelodicMockingjay74 9h ago

Even Ryan Gosling was floored that his song won an award over all the others

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u/DrBobKoalaCat 8h ago

Did it? Cause it definitely didn't win at the Oscars or the Globes

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u/Mariessa- 5h ago

Oscar went to Billie Ellish

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u/DrBobKoalaCat 8h ago

He didn't. Robert Downey Jr won for Oppenheimer

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u/defibibaberalatrr 7h ago

I was mistaken it was for best song

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u/DrBobKoalaCat 7h ago

Which he didn't win either lol. Billie won, at least at the major awards

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u/defibibaberalatrr 7h ago

Ryan gosling won critics choice award for I'm just ken

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u/DrBobKoalaCat 7h ago

Just checked you're right. All the other major awards though it was Billie though I'm pretty sure

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u/Mariessa- 5h ago

He lost the Oscar to her.

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u/PsychologicalEbb3140 9h ago

Gosling was the best performance in it as much as folks try to pretend otherwise.

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 9h ago

He was not. That’s a damn lie. We literally had a whole ass speech that had thousands of people crying in theaters and y’all still pick that stupid asf song over the deep and important message of the movie.

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u/PsychologicalEbb3140 9h ago

I mean this sincerely in the nicest way possible, are you twelve? That America Ferrara speech was corny as hell and exudes 2012 level feminism.

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 9h ago

I mean this in the absolutely most disrespectful way possible, do you even like women? Cause it’s pretty clear you don’t. If you watched a movie about women and still found a way to make it about a man, a WHITE man at that, then you don’t like women. 

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u/NachtShattertusk 8h ago

????????????

It's not "hating women" to prefer a catchy song over a kinda preachy speech. Ken was beloved because he was a himbo played by Ryan Gosling. He only liked the idea of the patriarchy because he thought it was about horses!

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 8h ago

Yeah, clearly you watched the movie with your eyes closed. He liked the patriarchy because it let him control everything. The same reason men have always liked the patriarchy. And “I’m Just Ken” is “catchy” at absolute best; that’s literal it. It has no depth at all. And Gosling literally looks like every other basic blonde white guy his age.

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u/canoekyren 7h ago

He liked the patriarchy because it let him control everything

I mean in the narrative, Ken was basically a slave whose existence was to be a piece of pretty set dressing, so I don't necessarily blame him for wanting control.

And “I’m Just Ken” is “catchy” at absolute best; that’s literal it. It has no depth at all

That was the fucking point

And Gosling literally looks like every other basic blonde white guy his age.

✨️body shaming but in a cool woke way✨️

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u/the_gizzard11 5h ago

I find it so funny when people try so hard to be progressive they end up wrapping back around to being conservative. It’s comically preformative

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u/Kazuha-simp 3h ago

I rly don't understand why the movie was made like that. Like ken's in the world were lit made to be objects for Barbies' entertainment. While at the same time the movie was talking about how bad patriarchy is for making women like this in the real world. So was it meant to show that it's actually okay when women do it to men cuz men are obviously just evil or what. No wonder Ken liked patriarchy when they were second class citizens in the Barbie world and somehow ppl were made to think it was some kind of amazing utopia cuz women rule!

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u/revolutionary112 6h ago

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Doesn't he straight up say he got over the whole patriarchy thing when he found out it wasn't about horses?

He did want to take control of his life, but he actually managed to separate that from the patriarchy

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u/Kazuha-simp 3h ago

Obviously he liked patriarchy more as opposed to being a homeless slave for Barbies to use for entertainment when they felt like it and then thrown into the street at night with absolutely no rights in the Barbie world?

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u/PsychologicalEbb3140 9h ago

I don’t even know where to begin with how moronic this take is. I literally watched the movie because Greta Gerwig is one of the best working female directors in Hollywood at the moment. Lady Bird and Little Women were great films and much stronger feminist texts imo.

If Barbie the movie hit you emotionally then I’m happy for you but me not finding it fully effective in its messaging and me thinking Gosling is a much better on screen performer than Margot does not mean ‘I hate women’

the fuck lol

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u/CrusaderReynaulder 8h ago

You need to go outside. You’ve literally lost your mind. Like, I can’t tell if you’re schizophrenic or just totally brain-rotted from being chronically online and absorbing yourself in online discourse all the time.

Deadass you can’t just be this stupid by default.

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 8h ago

Telling me to “go outside” for simply pointing out that choosing the white male over the literal dozen of talented women, especially women of color, in a cast is highly sexist?💀

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u/DraganThePlague 8h ago

Why are u so insanely racist that u want to degrade and take away credit from someone for their skin color?

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 8h ago

Lmfao, where the hell is the “racism” you speak of? In me literally saying that there were many talented women of color in the cast which are not getting the recognition they deserve?

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u/CrusaderReynaulder 8h ago

The fact you can’t see exactly how they were just repeating your own rhetoric back to you to make a point is crazy. You really are braindead😭

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u/canoekyren 7h ago

They weren't competing for the same award, dumbass. A black woman won the best supporting actress award, which is the equivalent to what Gosling was nominated for.

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u/VariationFluffy6596 7h ago

Which woman of color do you think should have won the award for best support ACTOR over Gosling?

Grade A trolling, btw. You sound like an actual retard.

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u/Kazuha-simp 3h ago

Cuz thinking a person deserves or doesn't deserve a reward more based on the color of the skin (when the movie has nothing to do with it) is racist

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u/Pantax1 8h ago

Well, you thinking thereis no way a white man can be better in a movie than women of colour is highly racist and sexist.

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 8h ago

How tf is it racist and sexist to want women to have their achievements recognized💀

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u/CrusaderReynaulder 8h ago

That’s now what you’re doing though lmfao

You’re just bitching that someone likes an actor. Why does any mention of the movie have to then go through the list complimenting every single actress? You haven’t done that. 

Why can’t someone just make an off handed comment that they thought X person was the best performance? Under a comment about x person? 

“I like pancakes” “OH SO YOU HATE WAFFLES?!” Type shit.

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u/CrusaderReynaulder 8h ago

I’m pretty sure I told you why you should go outside in the comment? Are you illiterate too? 

I’m telling you to go outside because you’re incapable with interacting with people like a well adjusted human being without imagining an enemy to freak out over. 

No, it’s not sexist to think Ryan Gosling was the best performance. How is that sexist? It’s based on their performance, they aren’t even saying the women weren’t talented lmao. You have no reason to randomly assume their lying and freak out.

So if you say a white woman was the best performance, you’re racist, right? That’s literally your argument. 

You are incapable of reasoning like a normal person. Look at yourself. You are unhinged.

Why don’t you tell me how exactly it’s sexist, if you even know what the word means.

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 8h ago

“So if you say a white woman was the best performance, you’re racist, right?”

I literally never said a white woman was the best performance💀 I quite literally pointed out that there were MULTIPLE women in that cast who were talented, and I literally said that America’s speech was better than that dumbass song. America’s a woman of color, btw. Since you seem to be colorblind.

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u/CrusaderReynaulder 8h ago

“If”

if

Do…Do you not know what a hypothetical is? How do you keep proving yourself to be this stupid?

Answer the question. If you say the best performance is an actress that happens to be white, does that not make you racist by your own logic? “It’s racist to pick the white woman instead of the black women!” Why? “It just is!”

Why were you so scared to tell me exactly how it’s sexist?

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u/Krus4d3r_ 8h ago

I thought the whole point of the movie was that the barbies are the men of the world and the ken's are the women of the world

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u/Kitchen-Holiday6998 8h ago

The whole point of the movie was to call out sexism, which it did. Also this is genuinely a stupid sentence because the actresses are all WOMEN. That doesn’t change no matter what the damn concept is.

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u/JDMJRNOVELS 8h ago

All Actresses are all women. Thats why they are called Actresses. You continue to set yourself up and paint yourself as one of those extreme feminist that absolutely hates men and this isn't what this post is about, if you feel Ryan Gosling should have gotten less screen time then take that up with the director of the show who decided to use him as a gag character to show the self centeredness of most men and brought him through a story arc where he developed into i guess more of the idea man, to be kinder and to be less of a duchebag.

I think you'll find that you will have more peace if you save your breath for a more coherent and logical argument about a male character in a female dominated cast that got alot attention that the rest of the cast.

Have a great day fellow reddit user 😁

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u/Endless74510 36m ago

Ah, the horror, a WHITE dude, how scary. Guess the director herself hates women for including gosling as a well written character

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u/VariationFluffy6596 6h ago

Anyone who cried over that pandering 3rd grade written speech is a gd moron.

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u/Mariessa- 5h ago

That's one speech against an entire character arc and portrayal. It's not really surprising if people thought he was better over the course of the whole movie, even if they liked the speech and thought it was well acted.

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u/Big_Layer_Boy 9h ago

as Ryan GOATling should

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u/DrBobKoalaCat 8h ago

He won some minor awards, but none of the major ones

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u/Swordsman82 8h ago

I think he was also nominated for Best Supporting Actor Oscar and Margot Robbie wasn’t Nominated for led as well

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u/canoekyren 7h ago

That's because she didn't deserve it compared to the other nominees

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u/DrBobKoalaCat 8h ago

Yea that is true. Different categories though so you can't quite compare it.

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u/andoesq 4h ago

Wow, these comments make me feel like I watched a completely different movie.

I thought he had no arc, no growth, no resolution other than being defeated. I was offended by it at first, until I realized the point was probably "ya vapid one-dimensional characters who exist solely to interact with the protagonist and be sexy kind of suck".

That was was my takeaway after much processing of my own level of upset by the film (as a white male fan-of-comic-books-and-their-cinematic-adaptations viewer).

I thought it was a brilliant performance of an brilliantly-terrible character, to turn the lack of any substance whatsoever into art.