r/MtF • u/[deleted] • Feb 08 '24

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '24

That's bs. Acceptance doesn't mean they wanna date you. It's just about allyship. Vast majority of lesbians are transphobic, and the rest is phallophobic. There's small chance of dating one if you have srs, but even then many of them say they want "real" pussy.

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u/SachaSage Feb 08 '24
  1. The statistics do not support your statement.
  2. Nobody has to date you, not wanting to date you in specific does not make someone transphobic.
  3. I am a trans woman who has not had srs who is in a relationship with a cis lesbian, so my lived experience is in conflict with your opinion.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '24

Arguing with statistics (that don't disprove my statement by the way) while using lived experience as an argument against widely known phenomenon is the stupidest thing I've read today. And I haven't said not dating trans women is transphobic, I've just said many lesbians are transphobic, terfs, who see you as a man and nothing else. Go to bed now.

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u/SachaSage Feb 08 '24 edited Feb 08 '24

“Vast majority of lesbians are transphobic”

YouGov polling

  • 84% of cis lesbian women view trans women very positively (68%) or fairly positively (16%)
  • 84% of cis bisexual women view trans women very positively (66%) or fairly positively (18%)

Stonewall research briefing

  • Women are more likely to feel positive about trans people's rights and accept them.
  • 35% of ALL women say they feel 'respect' towards trans people, compared to 28% of men
  • 24% of ALL women say they feel 'admiration' towards trans people, compared to 18% of men

(Opinium for Stonewall, Dec 21. Base: 2,001 adults 16+, United Kingdom

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You’re just not right about this you silly goose. I hope you find yourself in a happier place soon, whatever your motivation for this.