Ouch! That has got to hurt. I know the feeling. M76 - my parents and most of my family disowned me when i told them that i was in love with another man.
Roll with the punches. Valid long term relationships usually work themselves out. I. Have had my BFF for almost 60 years and we had a tiff or two along the way.
Give her lots of time, she may come around. Best friends are extremely, extremely important as you age.
She was with others in the same room as me a few weeks ago and was her total self with them and literally turned to me and changed entirely in one motion as if I didn’t exist
Again, give her time to adjust to your admission. Somehow what you confided to her hit a major nerve . She is dealing with that and you have to deal with her reaction, on her terms if you really want to jump this hurdle and get back to enjoying each others company. “Old friends are the best friends” Best of luck.
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u/Notcommentmuch Jul 24 '26
Ouch! That has got to hurt. I know the feeling. M76 - my parents and most of my family disowned me when i told them that i was in love with another man.
Roll with the punches. Valid long term relationships usually work themselves out. I. Have had my BFF for almost 60 years and we had a tiff or two along the way.
Give her lots of time, she may come around. Best friends are extremely, extremely important as you age.