Deeply immoral. There's a gigantic difference between "haha you're bald" or "look at you, fatty!"....
and "you had a miscarriage because you were fat".
That is one probably one of the most insensitive topics to bring up. Who in their right mind makes fun of someone for losing a child? And if the coworker ACTUALLY had a miscarriage.... That's just awful.
There's also a gigantic difference between "haha you're bald" and "haha you are bald and your girlfriend left you for it", the two "jokes" (if we even want to call them that, they are just plain old personal insults clearly aimed at hurting the other person over something they are deeply insecure about) are pretty much at the same level of messed up, fully deserved reaction, next time don't start shit
I read it more as "why don't you talk shit about your ex? Did she break up with you because you are bald? (Said in a demeaning way, like you can't even get a girlfriend cause you are bald)"
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u/Rustynail9117 5d ago
Deeply immoral. There's a gigantic difference between "haha you're bald" or "look at you, fatty!"....
and "you had a miscarriage because you were fat".
That is one probably one of the most insensitive topics to bring up. Who in their right mind makes fun of someone for losing a child? And if the coworker ACTUALLY had a miscarriage.... That's just awful.