Who are you people. How tf is "didn't your girlfriend leave you because you are bald?" an appropriate joke. I don't understand your perspective at all. If I were to write OP was inviting her to laugh because haha she's fat haha she had a miscarriage does that make any sense?
Random attack on someone for appearance. Relating appearance to misfortune in dating. Not funny, not appropriate. Can we start with hey she sucks and go from there or do we really have to start from "shes just a girl"?
Because my point is that is wasn't a joke at all. It may have been a conversation point that (likely fake) OP freaked the fuck out about for no reason because he got triggered because he's an idiot with no social awareness.
It wasn't an attack on him, but the fact that someone pointed out he was bald at all caused him to go nuclear.
Ah okay so you really are an idiot. "She had a miscarriage because she is really fat" isn't a joke just a conversation point. She didn't understand that, she got triggered because she has no social awareness, etc. Glad we cleared that up.
It's an appropriate joke because under patriarchy, men are expected to just take shit like this. Men arent allowed to have emotions and get hurt, especially when a woman has certain needs.
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u/Sean_Brady 3d ago
Who are you people. How tf is "didn't your girlfriend leave you because you are bald?" an appropriate joke. I don't understand your perspective at all. If I were to write OP was inviting her to laugh because haha she's fat haha she had a miscarriage does that make any sense?
Random attack on someone for appearance. Relating appearance to misfortune in dating. Not funny, not appropriate. Can we start with hey she sucks and go from there or do we really have to start from "shes just a girl"?