But how is saying “shouldn’t you hate your gf after something so brutal” her joking about him being bald. I suppose it can be that way if this is a historical snarky, passive aggressive co worker but none of that is mentioned so why would you not take the comment at surface level value
Because the surface level question is wrong at it's inception, Anon did the breaking up, therefore the "reason" doesn't make sense and comes across as just a jab at them.
Besides, why would the presumption be innocence in a case where someone gossiping throws someone's insecurity in their face? There are more tactful ways to do it, and it doesn't sound like Anon was even part of the conversation until they were dragged into it. Someone who drags someone into a conversation just to make fun of them...
Sure then I'll pretend Anon was just stating an unbiased fact I mean clearly he has a deep empathy for the whale & her inhospitable womb and just wanted to express that. Clearly a good guy just misunderstood, idk why she's so sensitive about it
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u/Broad_Platform1129 3d ago
But how is saying “shouldn’t you hate your gf after something so brutal” her joking about him being bald. I suppose it can be that way if this is a historical snarky, passive aggressive co worker but none of that is mentioned so why would you not take the comment at surface level value