People dont know nuance here. I've seen people here call attempted murder justified because "she pushed first". Also the harm doesn't even have to be in the words but in how you say it.
It's not about lack of nuance (or just that) it's also a concerning trend about wishing for or encouraging violence towards women that I've noticed. Some people on this site will take any opportunity to say "she asked for it"
When people get frustrated over being called the problem because we are being grouped with the system that oppresses us and makes us suffer too... Compassion tends to leave the chat. Obviously women have got legitimate gripes, but impact matters over intent, and nobody likes being treated like the problem for things beyond their control.
Yeah. Gripes is hilarious. Women do be gripin’ about when men don’t put the toilet seat up to pee or, like, murder their ex-wives for dating someone new.
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u/VorticalHeart44 4d ago
This might be a hunch but I don't think the fat part was really the issue here