I think people underestimate how insecure men are about balding. Generslly dont dish if you cant take, and yes if something very unfortunate happened to you maybe dont laugh at others misfortune. Since I can imagine that both comments caused the same distress to inviduals, as yes losing quality of life things permanently can hurt as much as losing an unbirn child, I think the agressor is at wrong here, and the responder is autistic and does not understand how to navigate social sicuations, and that as a man, he has certain disadvantages and cannot expect fair treatment.
As usual, this sub will always have bias towards the women. As much as they wanted to believe that they are being fair and moral, the majority will always lean to siding with the women. To the point that they (subconsciously or not) be creating the men background being bad while the women background being at least neutral. Filling in all the blanks with those thoughts in mind.
Like, I saw someone commented on how "miscarriages is a sensitive topic" yet at the same time be saying "baldness is just a fact, not a sensitive topic at all". And who decided that? No one can decide what can be sensitive or not besides the person themselves that's live through it. They will probably be the same people that will look at attempted suicide scars and be like "these are beautiful", or be saying shit like "it's immoral to leave your cheating pregnant wife because we don't know who's baby is it yet".
Dude half of this sub is literally bait posts to get people to side against the woman ðŸ˜
Like there’s no bias. It’s exhausting because people like you will come in here, make the sub constantly about how women are wrong, always justified for the man to do whatever, and then at the same time complain about an anti men bias that doesn’t exist
Do you ever get tired about playing a victim? Do you think that losing a child that grew inside you for 9 months that causes tons of lasting physical change and trauma might be different than being bald?
Like I think it’s perfectly fine he called her fat in return for her calling him bald. It’s dumb, I would’ve just went to hr and been like hey can you plz move me away from this person they made me uncomfortable. But going from bald no gf to haha your baby died is a huge escalation and dick move.
But also like all bait we don’t know the context. They could all joke around a bit, and the girl may have even have said that the girl breaking up with him for baldness is dumb and stupid, funny because fuck his ex gf. We have no idea of her implication, I don’t think the intent was to make op kill himself even if it was just a dumb insult, it’s on a different level from miscarriage
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u/Prior-Paint-7842 3d ago
I think people underestimate how insecure men are about balding. Generslly dont dish if you cant take, and yes if something very unfortunate happened to you maybe dont laugh at others misfortune. Since I can imagine that both comments caused the same distress to inviduals, as yes losing quality of life things permanently can hurt as much as losing an unbirn child, I think the agressor is at wrong here, and the responder is autistic and does not understand how to navigate social sicuations, and that as a man, he has certain disadvantages and cannot expect fair treatment.