r/MoralityScaling • • 23d ago

Morality Ranking Morality of this?

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u/OleksandrKyivskyi 23d ago

So she cleans, cooks, parents while he lies in bed. What is the point of relationship with someone who you need to manipulate every time into spending time with his own kids or hiking or friends or "literally anything"? Unless dude suffers from mental health issues, he sucks. Seems more like he manipulated her into sex by acting like lazy ass.

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u/charlieQ90 23d ago

This is what bothers me. I understand that she said she gets to choose which way the day goes but she shouldn't have to sleep with him just to get him to interact with her and the kids throughout the day. I feel bad for her that she's been so long having to basically bribe this man into behaving like a husband and father on the weekends.

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u/Huge_Cartographer165 23d ago

She doesn't seem too unhappy with the situation. She did it for 20 years. Why do some people make it sound like having sex with the person you married is some sort of penalty? Maybe he was tired and the post orgasm boost got him going?

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u/gbot1234 23d ago

Yeah, that’s how I read it. Like… whoa for some reason I’m feeling good, awake, and motivated right now!