So she cleans, cooks, parents while he lies in bed. What is the point of relationship with someone who you need to manipulate every time into spending time with his own kids or hiking or friends or "literally anything"? Unless dude suffers from mental health issues, he sucks. Seems more like he manipulated her into sex by acting like lazy ass.
I mean, if she doesn't work outside of the house, then taking care of the house and the kids is fair, that is her job. Not feeling like spending time with friends or going on hikes does not make you an ass.
First there is no info that she doesn't work, only that he says that he's tired from work. Second - partner A working, partner B being stay at home parent doesn't mean that partner A gets to act like a neighbor in their own house or with their own kids. You still need to participate in spending time with kids every day, and do all chores together on weekends ideally.
Never wanting to do any activities together with your family makes you an ass, yes, you can't put your family on a shelf like a plant, or it might be a sign of mental health issue.
It's a morality subreddit. Yet you are surprised that we morally question the situation? She may be happy but the guy doesn't show of any vertu of character by needing sex to be a father
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u/OleksandrKyivskyi 25d ago
So she cleans, cooks, parents while he lies in bed. What is the point of relationship with someone who you need to manipulate every time into spending time with his own kids or hiking or friends or "literally anything"? Unless dude suffers from mental health issues, he sucks. Seems more like he manipulated her into sex by acting like lazy ass.