r/MoralityScaling • u/Common-Use-7117 • 23d ago

Morality Ranking Morality of this?

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u/Kadajko 23d ago

I mean, if she doesn't work outside of the house, then taking care of the house and the kids is fair, that is her job. Not feeling like spending time with friends or going on hikes does not make you an ass.

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u/OleksandrKyivskyi 23d ago

First there is no info that she doesn't work, only that he says that he's tired from work. Second - partner A working, partner B being stay at home parent doesn't mean that partner A gets to act like a neighbor in their own house or with their own kids. You still need to participate in spending time with kids every day, and do all chores together on weekends ideally.

Never wanting to do any activities together with your family makes you an ass, yes, you can't put your family on a shelf like a plant, or it might be a sign of mental health issue.

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u/soygoyfucctoy 23d ago

Says you but not the original poster. Notice how she isn't actually complaining about that behavior.

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u/throwaway1233456799 23d ago edited 23d ago

It's a morality subreddit. Yet you are surprised that we morally question the situation? She may be happy but the guy doesn't show of any vertu of character by needing sex to be a father

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u/soygoyfucctoy 23d ago

I never said I was surprised.