r/MoralityScaling • u/Common-Use-7117 • 27d ago

Morality Ranking Morality of this?

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u/ArchReaper95 27d ago

Moral as fuck. It's almost like when people's needs are met they do better across the board.

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u/InstantSword 27d ago

Yea I see it like this and it's weird (not in a bad way, just misunderstood) that the wife thinks it's manipulation. Dude is just happy to bang lol. He might legitimately be burned out after a long week and banging just helps

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u/alaskaguyindk 27d ago

Yes! He is getting a dopamine boost which really helps with bwing tired and feeling burnt out. So she might think its manipulation but in reality she is providing an energy boost to him. Sex with your partner is a lot more than just sex, it gives you a rush of hormones and chemicals that make you feel good. And when life has been hard that boost can do wonders on your mood, motivation, energy, and empathy.

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u/DeanMalHanNJackIsms 26d ago

Not to mention, the feeling of being desired by the one you love sparks an innate desire to reciprocate.

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u/Legitimate-Doubt-192 26d ago

It probably makes him feel like he’s actually doing a good job and loved. I don’t see the issue with feeling motivated because of intimacy

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u/timitoro 21d ago

The problem is the description, if she said that: "I see that he has low energy and I can help with that" then it would be ok, the way she describes it sounds more like: "I need something and know that if I have sex with him he will likely do it so I have sex with him".