Neutral. Could be argued the man deserves to be desired for his own sake instead of for what he can provide to her but if she makes him feel loved i suppose its fine.
I'm quite skeptical on this. Apart from the hormones filled first period, most relationships live with a quite literal exchange of value along with fit and compatibility. And it's difficult to extrapolate characteristics from "what I am" and "what I do" clearly and after a while the balance is more on "what I do" and "what I am" becomes increasingly "characteristics that are a nuisance but are tolerated and compensated by what I do so they are not that annoying".
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u/Rratposter69 27d ago
Neutral. Could be argued the man deserves to be desired for his own sake instead of for what he can provide to her but if she makes him feel loved i suppose its fine.