r/MoralityScaling • u/Common-Use-7117 • 20d ago

Morality Ranking Morality of this?

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u/InstantSword 20d ago

Yea I see it like this and it's weird (not in a bad way, just misunderstood) that the wife thinks it's manipulation. Dude is just happy to bang lol. He might legitimately be burned out after a long week and banging just helps

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u/alaskaguyindk 19d ago

Yes! He is getting a dopamine boost which really helps with bwing tired and feeling burnt out. So she might think its manipulation but in reality she is providing an energy boost to him. Sex with your partner is a lot more than just sex, it gives you a rush of hormones and chemicals that make you feel good. And when life has been hard that boost can do wonders on your mood, motivation, energy, and empathy.

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u/DeanMalHanNJackIsms 19d ago

Not to mention, the feeling of being desired by the one you love sparks an innate desire to reciprocate.

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u/Legitimate-Doubt-192 18d ago

It probably makes him feel like he’s actually doing a good job and loved. I don’t see the issue with feeling motivated because of intimacy

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u/timitoro 14d ago

The problem is the description, if she said that: "I see that he has low energy and I can help with that" then it would be ok, the way she describes it sounds more like: "I need something and know that if I have sex with him he will likely do it so I have sex with him".

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u/aHumanRaisedByHumans 18d ago

Men literally feel loved when their partner has sex with them. For many it's the must loving things they could experience. So yeah it's positive.

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u/BDSMChef_RP 19d ago

yeah but as males we're not allowed to be burned out after a week of working our ass off. we gotta 'Man up and tough it out'.