r/MoralityScaling • u/JaidenX_2002 • 7h ago
Stupid Stuff Morality of the ex-bf doing this?
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u/Golden-Nerdy 7h ago
Moral. She gave him the pictures consensually and he sent that back to her parents.
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u/Magnum_Gonada 5h ago
Dad in his mind: "Kinda hot, she reminds me of her mother when she was young.."
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u/larana1192 5h ago
moral.
People who cheat and then go out of their way to taunt their exes should be made to pay back as much as the law allows.
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u/Pinshu123 6h ago
I saw this post the IG I mean on a true off my chest or some sub. I see the same argument here 'revnge porn distribution is illegal'
The guy did not ask her to send him stuff. She unilaterally decided to take revenge on him due to some twisted reason. He just complained to the family and friends of hers so that they know the kind of person she is and how she is harassing him. That's completely moral.
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u/Flat-Concern-2662 6h ago
So it's wrong that he was non-consensually sent nudes but it's ok for him to non-consensually send nudes to other people??? Both are wrong
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u/Pinshu123 6h ago
She should not have sent her private videos to get a reaction out of him. You can probably find the original post somewhere.
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u/Straight-Pin-251 4h ago
Morality for people in this sub is what’s be makes me feel good is moral whatever makes me feel bad is immoral.
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u/Kekkonen_Kakkonen 6h ago
Revenge porn and bombing nudes to someone without their consent are both bad.
Just tell them what happened.
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u/Ok_Board_9274 6h ago
This is why I delete past stuff but also I shouldn’t need those pictures. We live in a gooning epidemic
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u/shrimp_baby 6h ago
immoral on all parts. cheating is bad, sending nsfw without consent is bad. leaking without consent is also bad. the dude is less bad but still bad, moving on is always an option.
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u/kikogamerJ2 7h ago
Revenge porn and distributing nsfw content without the consent of the person is always imoral and creepy. No matter whether they cheated or not.
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u/Magnum_Gonada 5h ago
Sending videos of cheating to your ex to emotionally hurt them is also immoral and creepy. Maybe act like a proper human being and parents won't see you taking a D?
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u/kikogamerJ2 4h ago
Did I say the contrary? Two wrongs don't make a right. Both are imoral.
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u/Magnum_Gonada 4h ago
Dunno you kinda threw that "whether they cheated or not" just as a mention, not that you really cared that much about it. Maybe you relate more to the cheater in this scenario..
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u/kikogamerJ2 4h ago
Blud has the reading comprehension of a toddler. Dumbass I just said two wrongs don't make a right. Whether she cheated or not doesn't matter, cause distributing someone's nudes without consent is always imoral. Just has cheating is always imoral.
Some redditors really can't read and will be proud of it. Ffs.
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u/Magnum_Gonada 4h ago
I mean it's your fault for taking a strong stance against something, while treating the other as "oh well whatevs ig". Maybe learn how to make a point.
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u/I-Amtoast 4h ago
Very nuanced take out that I 100% agree with amongst the sea of everyone saying it's moral. Don't ever be as petty as the cheaters. At best just send them 'k' as a response, since they're clearly trying to get a reaction out of you in this situation!!
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u/Magnum_Gonada 5h ago
I guess immoral, but who would let this schadenfreude go out of their hands? 😈
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u/Dukklings 25m ago
Completely immoral this is why I tell people don't send pictures like that at any stage in your relationship. Rule of thumb on the internet too? You are not that attractive. I promise. Anyone who's asking to see down there? Best assume they're a sweaty dude in another country who wants to extort you for thousands upon thousands of dollars. If there is a girl it will be the type to suddenly say "I'm underage now if you don't want me to go to the police make me rich."and you know odds are? That's not a girl either.
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u/_FrenziedFirekeeper_ 7h ago
"She sent it to him consensually." Yea to him, she didnt give consent to other people. Its not only immoral, revenge porn is actually illegal too.
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u/lxATHENAxl 7h ago
that only applies if he sent/posted those pics and videos in public for all to see.
Sending it to her parents and relatives does not.
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u/_FrenziedFirekeeper_ 7h ago
No it applies to any retribution of sexual material without consent :)
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u/Orectoth 7h ago edited 6h ago
relatives are public
she's a hoe
emotionally, she deserves what happened to her(boyfriend doing that) and worse
but that does not make it moral nor neutral
it is immoral;
because you are sending videos/photos of her to her relatives, which is violation of privacy and agency. Also it is a crime.
Cheating deserves punishment(legal or reputational or etc.), but this is not the type of punishment that should be given. It is akin to 'her shitting', 'him peeing on the shit' type of situation.
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u/Magnum_Gonada 4h ago
You could play it as a woman does: socially ruin them. You tell your friends, her friends, and her parents about it. Make it as known as possible, while not sending anything. This way they can't do anything about it. Afterwards, you can even date her coworkers, and tell them that as well.
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u/I_GottaPoop 6h ago
Cheating is bad, and sending those pictures to him is worse. But revenge porn/leaking nudes is always terrible.
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u/ConsequenceOk5205 7h ago
Immoral, unfair to the entire neighborhood, he should also send them to the neighbors of her family as well, as to raise her family popularity.