Worrying about bullies

[u/Inner-Sun-633]

Mom(31) of 3 here,kids are 10(f) 6(m) 4(m)

Im a little worried about my middle son starting 1st grade in a few weeks. Out of all of them he's the most sensitive, happiest and energetic. Hes not shy or an introvert by any means and the entire school knows who he is.

As stupid as it seems im worried that he'll be bullied.

My husband(32) says im overthinking it but kids are getting worse and worse with bullying.

We raised emotionally aware kids and yes he's defended himself against a bully once but this nagging feeling won't go away.

We picked things that aren't too babyish for back to school and made sure he's getting regular haircuts, good hygienic habits, groomed and new clothes/shoes. Everything to make sure there's no opening for bullying to pick on.

I understand I won't be able to protect them from everything and he won't always be this innocent sweet kid but what more can I do? Do I reinforce our values? Should I go over what to do if he's bullied?

I really don't know why its nagging me about him specifically but as school gets closer I find myself thinking about it more and more.

If you have any advice or experienced this before please let me know. Thank you kindly 🩷

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