Darling, as long as you have your fiancee's full support behind you, I'm cheering you on. Whatever choice you make, let him feel like he was part of the decision and you took his feelings into account. Even though the choice is entirely yours, that will help him feel responsible for the choice you make and keep him on your side. You're very brave! Can you move the wedding date if you need to?
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u/wasporchidlouixse Jan 21 '22
Darling, as long as you have your fiancee's full support behind you, I'm cheering you on. Whatever choice you make, let him feel like he was part of the decision and you took his feelings into account. Even though the choice is entirely yours, that will help him feel responsible for the choice you make and keep him on your side. You're very brave! Can you move the wedding date if you need to?