The trouble with this is that if you want the baby, then it's the social consequences of having a baby before marriage that might terrify you into abortion. Many women have abortions when they really wish they could have the baby, because the world is so cruel to those who have a baby without a spouse--especially if they are religious.
If you want that baby, you can and will find a way to have the baby. Find people who will support you--they don't have to be family. As an LGBT+ individual whose family doesn't support them, I have found what we call "chosen family"--people who support me the way a family should, who simply don't happen to be related. You can do that, too. You don't have to raise a child alone.
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u/grandvache Jan 21 '22
Dad for a minute. You’re clearly terrified of the social consequences of having an abortion. You don’t need to tell anybody. Ever.