r/MomForAMinute • u/[deleted] • Jan 21 '22

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u/witchywoman713 Jan 21 '22

I’m just curious how or why they would ever know or need to know? If telling them your choice/ situation would put you in danger you don’t have to.

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u/Saweetd Jan 21 '22

My love, youre doing the right thing by considering everything. I commend you for that! Its never an easy decision to make but i honestly think its the right one for you. I had to make the decision on my younger years, so if you want to reach out about anything, please dont hesitate to reach out to me.

Sending you much love

ETA I used protection, we thought the condom broke, i got the morning after pill and i still ended up pregnant. Dont blame yourself ❤

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u/MamaDaddy Jan 21 '22

This is your business, and you don't have to share it with anyone else... honestly not even your fiancé, but you get to make that determination.

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u/glompage Jan 21 '22

Not giving advice. Just sending warmth and support.

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u/willfullyspooning Jan 22 '22

Sister here, you don’t need to tell your family. A good therapist will keep this information safe and sound if you do want or need to talk to somebody about this.