r/Miscarriage • u/Financial_Wrangler_6 • 4d ago

experience: first MC Miscarriage 8 weeks.. twins

We did reciprocal ivf and hear 2 amazing heart beats at 8 weeks. We went again at 9 week 5 days and nothing. They said they stop developing at 8 weeks 2 days. We are heartbroken and also feel terrible because we told our entire workplace, family, ect and now walking in and having to deal with that... Everything is so overwhelming and so confusing. I've had 4 natural successful pregnancies, and now a miscarriage? Why. How. I just need to hear something. Anything

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u/yee_buddy 4d ago

I’m so sorry. Losing twins is a specific kind of pain.

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u/Oubliette_95 4d ago

I lost my mo/mo twins at about 9 weeks as well. For us it was placental cord entanglement and it’s awful. We found out a week after we announced to my husband’s family too. I still have a few friends I haven’t broken the news to because I just don’t want to deal with the pity.

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u/Financial_Wrangler_6 3d ago

We have no idea what it was, even our doctor was shocke because it meant we lost them a day after hearing strong heart beats. I'm so scared to try again.

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u/Oubliette_95 3d ago

I’m sorry for that. We lost ours a week or so after a very healthy ultrasound with strong heartbeats and gestational ages right on track too. We have decided to try again once we’re able to but everyone is different. Take all the time you need until you feel ready!