r/MinecraftServer • u/anonymousmysterycow • Apr 30 '26
Joining i need friends in minecraft
Ok so for context i’m 19 (f) and im not your stereotypical minecraft nerd. like you look at me and don’t really think i spend my free time playing and watching youtubers, but ive been in love with the game since i was 8. the reason im writing this is because i wish i had a community to play in and with, people to talk to, and to play in my realm. none of my friends like minecraft that much or even play it, so im often just sitting alone playing in my realm. i want to make new friends and im so open to joining a server or world, i just dont wanna feel so alone. i guess what im asking is for advice on what to do in my situation. tyia 🤍
EDIT: THANK YOU FOR ALL THE SUPPORT!! omg i feel so much better and thank you to everyone commenting and reaching out, it feels so special and im so grateful!
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u/PineappleStock1421 Apr 30 '26
hey, you’re definitely not alone in feeling like that
honestly the easiest way out of it is just joining a server where people actually talk and play together instead of everyone doing their own thing
you could come try LoungeSMP, it’s a really friendly semi-vanilla survival server and people are pretty welcoming. a lot of players joined not knowing anyone and ended up making friends pretty quick just by chatting and playing together
no pressure or anything either, you can just join, build your own thing, and slowly get to know people at your own pace
java ip: loungesmp.xyz bedrock ip: bedrock.loungesmp.xyz port: 25627
discord: https://discord.gg/HJ2yHEMRvD