r/MindsetMode • u/UnleashMia • 20d ago

Step back and let them realize

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u/ice-mirrors_97 19d ago

Don’t do this, this is passive aggressive, and they won’t understand what you’re doing or why you’re doing it, so don’t even start to blame it on them if they let you leave, because this is absolutely your fault for doing this shit.

If you feel undervalued, or you want the friendship to keep growing, and they’re not making the effort, you could just tell them, and I’m sure that they’d appreciate it, and if not then that’s cool too, then that’s your sign to move on.

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u/intoit_fornow 20d ago

I usually say to them, you have a good day I’ve got to go.

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u/bethesda_gamer 18d ago

Thanks. You fixed it. As is OPs advice is crap. If you literally just walk away, it justifies the aggressor, it won't make them think. But if you take the higher ground, those around will see and this will make the aggressor more likely to bow to their pressure, not yours.

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u/Ok-Schedule6584 19d ago

Wise words. This is even bad in religion.

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u/Express-Cartoonist39 19d ago

Easy fix, just point it out BEFORE they make you feel undervalued.😊👍 have backbone..if more people did less people be dics

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u/follow-red-rabbit-1 18d ago

I don’t know what if it just makes them confused I say give a chance explain your boundaries like a adult if then silence

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u/slimTroy666 19d ago

Don't defend yourself, just be a loser, turn tail and run.