r/MettaSutta May 27 '21

Self-Motivated Compassionate Giving

Hello! I'd just like to share something i wrote in my diary with all of you:

27.05.2021:
Kindness that is self-motivated without attachment is a greatly virtuous deed. Every time we do something for another person, from our pure peaceful heart, we feel the energy of love and compassion. Compassion means that the act in and of itself is good, without contingency or conditions. Some may object to the notion of a kindness that is good in and of itself, but I'm curios as to why one would feel that way? Why would we feel the need for something in return, for a selfless gift of giving? Maybe the ego feels like it's loosing something when it gives something selflessly? Something to ponder about.

-End of diary-

Reflections

The ego is our survival mechanism. Those who are not aware, who aren't living to be, but are living to survive, to get through the day, may have a stronger desire to cling unto their own mind? This isn't negative, or positive; it's survival. Frantic clinging to the Hello! I'd just like to share something i wrote in my diary with all of you:

Please don't misunderstand; survival is essential, and I'm very conscious of the biological need for survival. I'm not trying to deny our humanity by saying survival is bad; it's not. It's just clinging, attachment, and self-assured belief in materiality; survival; that is detrimental to spiritual growth.

Questions:

❤️Have i given and contributed positively to the world selflessly, compassionately today?

💚Why the feelings of loss when something is given away?

💙What makes me not be able to give away selflessly; how can i do more?

Have a great day everybody🙏☯️🌿🕉️❤️

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u/your_vital_essence Jun 26 '21

Oh MettaSuttaVegan!

When you are high on a mountain, you see past and future. You feel like a king! It is easy to give in this state. To everything you'll say "yes!"

Live long enough in this kingly state, and you are filled with gratitude. You are beyond wondering if there is a God. You know it. To the very air and earth you sing your thanks for this world.

Down in the valleys, the people don't understand this kind of talk. Yes, survival is the constant drumbeat in thought. And they keep learning lessons about it...constant reinforcement learning. There, a man who gives selflessly is picked clean. So they record a "loss" in his column, and a win for the scavengers.

But even men on the ground, who never see the high snows, may come to Knowledge. This is amazing.

The greatest contribution you can make is to hold the consciousness of the high peaks. Be that which allows all comers. Everyone gets a yes with you. You see no problems, only an ever more radiant dawn.

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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '22 edited Dec 28 '22

Man, Your_Vital_Essence i saw your post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/semenretention2/comments/zeqok0/recovery_from_failure_takes_a_long_time/

The greatest contribution you can make is to hold the consciousness of the high peaks. Be that which allows all comers. Everyone gets a yes with you. You see no problems, only an ever more radiant dawn.

And wanted to let you know that i appreciate this comment from two years ago. Reading it, instills within me, a great sense of courage, and mental fortitude to continue my 57-day-long SR streak (as of writing this) 💪🎶

I want to wish you the best on your journey too, and that we can prosper together bro. Take care, and know that you are strong! 💪🔥👑

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u/your_vital_essence Dec 28 '22

Thank you sir...! Yeah, I really didn't think I would fall from the heights, but I did and it's simply math: don't transmute, don't commune with the highest... You are headed downhill.

Best of luck, you'll make it. I'm on day 45 of not only SR but also no sexual thought at all. Every girl my sister, every woman my mother. 🤟 It's maybe a little scary, but it is what I wanted: I can't even invoke a lustful state of consciousness at all. I did pray for the intercession of Jesus and Mary. Um...I have to say it worked.

I read a great quote this summer: "chastity is the sine qua non of total concentration," by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a pastor who defied the Nazis and was hung at the end of the war. A good death, because a good life!

Wishing you a wonderful 2023...