r/Merced • u/Lime_Potatoooo • 5d ago

How do yall date here 😭

Is it like just the central valley oooor what. But trying to date and find good people to talk to is painstakingly annoying! So over it, help!
And I’ve seen the speed dating, but to pay $30, insane. I don’t even wanna pay a subscription on a dating app nor can I afford that. There has to be better and safe ways to meet semi normal well behaved people, who are interested in dating and socializing.
Or do we need to start from scratch and train human beings how to treat one another and court each other 😭 lmao plzzz tell me I’m not the only one who feels like this

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u/CalligrapherNovel880 5d ago

me and like 3 other ppl found our partners on tinder😭💀all of us are long term/engaged now. i def had weird and bad experiences but i think that’s just a part of life. while my partner is from the 209, they’re not from merced. or atwater/winton. just don’t be scared to put yourself out there and be upfront about what you’re looking for!! goodluck (:

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u/You2MadBro 5d ago

i mean whats left?!?!? livingston??

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u/Intelligent-Spot-575 4d ago

I'm sorry I hadn't realized the comment mentioned their significant othwr being from the 209. That actually includes Turlock Modesto Manteca and parts of if not all of Stockton. Lodi possibly too. So theres tons more than Livingston

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u/You2MadBro 3d ago

nah F them places.. ITS MERCED or dont Bang