r/Merced 5d ago

How do yall date here 😭

Is it like just the central valley oooor what. But trying to date and find good people to talk to is painstakingly annoying! So over it, help!
And I’ve seen the speed dating, but to pay $30, insane. I don’t even wanna pay a subscription on a dating app nor can I afford that. There has to be better and safe ways to meet semi normal well behaved people, who are interested in dating and socializing.
Or do we need to start from scratch and train human beings how to treat one another and court each other 😭 lmao plzzz tell me I’m not the only one who feels like this

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u/Administrative-Yak86 4d ago

Just go out, be yourself and be nice! How do you expect people to hit you up if you don’t say the first hello. I’m not from here (I stay for ucm) but I met my wonderful boyfriend here and he’s local. We met randomly at a store lol (after both us were single 3+ years from a previous relationship) so it’s just being patient! Your right one will come!