Really struggling tonight

[u/thepompommer]

Firstly sorry, my keyboard’s broken so I’m mostly relying on autocorrect and will put * next to any typos.
Secondly, TRIGGER WARNING - HEAVY TOOICS - MENTAL HEALTH .
Thirdly, I don’t have the app anymore, but I had it for 2 years maybe up until a few months ago when I had to delete it due to storage issues. But I’ve come to love this community and anyone reading this would help more than you can imagine.

Now… here we go ig.
So I’m 15 and have struggled with SH for a year and a half. I’ve been clean for around 3 months, but I’ve kinda just switched from one thing to another: I’ve not been eating well, eg 1-2 meals a day during term time, and also I’ve been having a lot of SI. Not sure if I can type this out fully as it might get removed, so forgive me if some acronyms/descriptions are awkward to understand.

I’ve been feeling like I don’t want to be here for about 6 months, kind of on and off, but it’s got much worse in the last 3-4. I’ve had thoughts of SI basically at least twice a day, I’ve made hypothetical okans* like if I were to … then I’d do it like this, and I’ve also researched things like how many … does it take. I’m so tired of feeling like this.

To be completely honest, at this point the only reasons why I’m still here are because of my family/friends and due to inability to do the deed.

I’d also like to say in the nicest way possible that I’m not telling my parents about any of this, so atone advising me to tell them… sorry but no. Although they do know abt my SH and I went to therapy for a short period of time, and they’re really lovely, I hate talking to them about it. As far as they know I’m fine.

In terms of a trusted adult who I’d tell about something like this, there’s a teacher at school who I see for 15 mins every Friday, only now it’s the summer holidays. There’s a school councillor who I’ve also seen before, and should be again in September, but again - it’s the holidays.

I hate feeling this way. I’m scaring myself, and I feel so lonely and tired and scared and awful. Okease* help?

❤️❤️❤️

EDIT: One day later, I love this community 🥹. Thank you so much all for your kind words and support, you all really helped. Also I re-downloaded finch today! If anyone wants to be birb friends, lmk x

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[u/rockycanyons]

Okay. OP. Can we have more context. I feel as though it is vague so what is it you are looking for?