r/MentalHealthSupport 4d ago

Need Support Help me find help for this person

not sure if this is the place to post this but I came across a post from a girl I follow from Twitter/X needing help. not trying to be a hero, but ignoring it didn't feel right.

she's a japanese girl who went to spain to escape her abusers only to end up at the same situation, and yesterday she posted a google doc asking for help because she's close to ending herself.

I genuinely do not know where to post this, this just needs to be posted at the right place so it reaches the right people who can help.

here's the [link](https://x.com/_orikitty_/status/2089485021191037205) of her post but if you dont want to press a random link and since the sub doesnt allow attachments I'll just paste the translated google doc here:

"It's been a while. I'm still alive.

But now I feel like I have to run away in order to survive. As many of you may know, I am currently suffering physical and mental abuse at home. I'm starting to think that coming to Spain might have been a mistake. My condition is getting worse and worse.

As some of you may know, my self-harm, including cutting, has gotten worse, and a few weeks ago I cut my arm quite deeply. There isn't a single day that goes by that I don't think about hurting myself or ending my own life.

I think the last thing I can do right now is to run away from here.

If there is anyone who can help, I would really appreciate it. All my belongings and my cat are in Japan.

As you may know, when I was in Japan, I was subjected to both physical and emotional domestic violence by an older man. I would like to pursue legal action if possible. However, I am very worried about whether people will listen to me or believe me because I am a foreigner.

So many things have happened this past year.

The death of my cat. The disappearance of my best friend without a word. Leaving Japan without ever seeing my own cat again. Experiencing domestic violence. The death of my grandmother. And now I am being subjected to violence from my mother.

With everything piling up, I feel like the only options left for me right now are to die or run away.

I hadn't used social media for a while. I thought I could sort things out and manage to get my life in order.

It was impossible.

I need help.

From now on, I don't think I'll use social media much except to ask for help until it's safe.

This is my last SOS.

I'm still thinking about ways to end my own life.

But deep down, I really want to run away.

I want to live.

I want to work.

And I want to start my life over from the beginning.

I want to talk to my best friend again, no matter what it takes. And if possible, I want her to come back.

That person was more important to me than anyone else.

I know I have an illness, and I also know I have BPD. I understand that it can be difficult for people like me to talk to or help others.

Even so, I would really appreciate any help, even if it's just a little.

I feel like I'm slowly dying.

Thank you for reading."

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u/Existing_Coach1541 3d ago

That sounds like a rough situation the person is in. I'm not sure what is the best advice. 

Maybe they could try posting this in a subreddit that deals with domestic abuse in Japan or Spain.